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Aimee
Dedicated November 2017

Does the MOH hold both her bouquet and mine?

Aimee, on March 22, 2017 at 1:53 PM Posted in Planning 0 12

My friend got married in November and when I was her bridesmaid, we never went over where her bouquet went when she reached the altar. She handed it to her MOH but she looked really awkward and didn't seem to know what to do with both bouquets. I don't want to encounter this issue on my big day! Does the MOH hold both, put mine down somewhere, or what is supposed to happen?

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Latest activity by MrsSki, on March 22, 2017 at 3:23 PM
  • melanie
    Master August 2017
    melanie ·
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    I have always seen the MOH hold it in weddings I have been in and attended

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  • browneyedgirl
    Expert June 2018
    browneyedgirl ·
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    Wondering the same!

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  • Nicole2017
    Master August 2017
    Nicole2017 ·
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    I've been a MOH twice, and both times held the bride's bouquet. I handed them off briefly to fluff out the dresses at the alter but then took them back from the girls standing nearest to me.

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  • Emilee
    Expert April 2017
    Emilee ·
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    I only have a MOH and was thinking of handing my bouquet to my mother instead, I will okay that with her first though.

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  • BeachBride2016
    Master November 2016
    BeachBride2016 ·
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    My MOH held mine. They went over it all during the rehearsal so it wasn't a surprise and was very natural during the ceremony. She handed it back to me just after we were announced husband and wife so I could have it for the recessional.

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  • Katie
    Master October 2016
    Katie ·
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    Typically bridal bouquets are a bit larger than bridesmaid bouquets so it can be difficult for a MOH to hold both bouquets. My MOH held my bouquet and then the next bridesmaid held the MOH and her own bouquet. This was nice because I did not realize how bad my dress's train was going to get all bunched up once I got to the altar so my MOH used her free hand to straighten it out right before we started. She handed it back to me after we were announced and then she took her own bouquet back from the bridesmaid.

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  • Jen D.
    VIP May 2017
    Jen D. ·
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    I was MOH for my MOH a few years ago. I held mine and hers, and handed everything off to the BM next to me to fix her dress then took them back. She was so excited to walk back down the aisle with her husband that she forgot to take her bouquet back from me! It was hilarious and now we joke that I need to remember to take mine back. We might do some interesting things though since she'll be 8 months pregnant at my wedding, someone else may be put in charge of dress fluffing.

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  • Michael V
    Michael V ·
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    It helps if the bride holds onto her bouquet during the ceremony until it's time to take each other's hands or exchange rings. I've seen brides feel and act awkward when they pass their bouquet off too soon and then they don't know what to do with their hands. This is why it's important to conduct a walk through if not a full rehearsal. Best wishes!

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  • MrsNerd
    Master October 2016
    MrsNerd ·
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    I wish I had thought to ask this...it literally didn't occur to me until it happened. I walked down the aisle, got to my place, and just handed MOH the bouquet. Or maybe she reached for it, as a clue for me. Either way, poor woman stood there holding two bouquets for the whole ceremony, and I'm still not sure if that was correct haha.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    If there is a little table for something like the sand ceremony, etc, you could put it there. Most of my brides hand it to their MOH, who hands their bouquet to the woman or many next to them (since the bride's bouquet is usually bigger and heavier).

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  • Che
    Super June 2017
    Che ·
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    I was thinking about that looking at all the brooch bouquets I feel sorry for the MOH holding that for 30mins

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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
    MrsSki ·
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    If you have delicate flowers, they could break or brown if you lay them down. Most MOHs hold both, or the MOH can pass hers to the next bridesmaid and just hold the bride's bouquet. I've also seen the mother of the bride stand to take her daughter's bouquet after she walks down the aisle and hand it back before the recessional

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