Does the groom write thank you notes to the GM?

Ha, my guy is pretty informal and not American, so he wouldn't know anything about GM / bridal party etiquette unless I make him do it. I think a gift is more than enough

I think this is more male/female rather than etiquette. My FH is giving gifts, as am I but I'm the note writer so my girls will get that too, the lads won't!

I don't think this is a guy thing. My husband has never received a thank you note from any of his guy friends for being in their weddings, nor did he write them to his GM. It just wouldn't happen. Gifts, yes. But not notes.

I wrote thank you cards to everyone in the wedding, just to say thank you for being in the wedding that we appreciate it and it means a lot to us and we can't wait to celebrate with them then signed with both our names

I am choosing to write them notes, not really on his behalf. But just because I know he's not "sentimental" like that. The people that are his GM's, are his best friends and family. So he wouldn't feel it was necessary but I certainly do! However, I'm also pretty close with all of the guys as well, so it wouldn't be awkward for me to write them a thank you note.

My FH was his best friends Best man last year and he got a thank you note

It wasn't long or anything but was a personal touch. I guess it depends on your FH's style/personality

I think it's fine. As long as he recognizes them in some way and says thank you.

I didn't write thank you notes. I didn't even know that was a thing. I figured their gifts were a thank you. Also they got thank you cards for the gifts they gave us.

My DH has never written a thank you in his life, bless his heart.

We wrote thank you notes together for our bridal party, including the groomsmen

H just gave his groomsmen a gift. I included a thank-you note with my bridesmaids' gifts. I don't think men really think to write each other thank-you notes to be honest, lol

I asked my FH and he said he has never received one from for the 6 weddings he's been in and he doesn't want to do them for ours. He's just doing gifts.

I got thank you cards and gifts for my girls.

Thanks for the input. It seems a full blown note might be considered overkill!

I don't know....I"m a big fan of TY notes, and I can tell you that when my partner (male) gets one from a couple after the wedding, he is thrilled.

Just cause no one else does it doesn't mean he shouldn't. How hard could it be to write 6-8 notes?

I don't think It's a must as long as he says thank you when he hands them the gift.