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Does future sister in law have to be a bridesmaid?

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Private User, on March 26, 2015 at 10:51 PM

My MIL really wants my FSIL to be a bridesmaid. Currently I only have a MOH and my FH only has BM I wanted to keep it small, not to mention she is only 16... Thoughts?? Also my wedding is in September and MOH has already gotten her dress

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Savvy October 2016
Meline · on March 31, 2015 at 1:15 PM
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I'm including both of my FSILs, but it wasn't a definite thing and I don't think they would have been hurt if I hadn't. But my FH is also including my brother so it makes it different.
I do agree that it's wrong for your FMIL to be pushing anyone or anything into your's and your FH's wedding. Your wedding is about the two of you and thats all that matters
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Master July 2015
annakay511 · on March 31, 2015 at 5:59 PM
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16 is too young to be a BM. She does not need to be included- stick to your guns. If you need a "special job" so she feels included, have her hand out programs or something.
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VIP July 2015
Ms. P to Mrs. P · on March 31, 2015 at 6:14 PM
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She doesn't have to be a bridesmaid. Only if you want her to be one. I am a firm believer that your bridesmaids should be the people you feel closest to and couldn't imagine your day without. There are several ways to include people in your big day.
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