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Does anyone enjoy being just a guest?

Michelle, on January 27, 2022 at 4:28 PM Posted in Community Conversations 1 4
Many people actually say they don’t enjoy being a bridesmaid or they can’t afford it but they still want to support the couple. So it’s all the fun without any of the emotional and financial responsibility that is associated with being a bridesmaid. It doesn’t have responsibility of other roles either: finding the perfect reading when that is often the officiant’s job, or something else that may be common.


Latest activity by Elycia, on January 28, 2022 at 3:42 PM
  • Allaura
    Dedicated November 2022
    Allaura ·
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    I liked it. Lol I liked not having to organize anything other than my own little family. Lol
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle Online ·
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    I like being the guest haha. i was a bridesmaid once and although that was for my bff, it DEFINITELY comes with so much more work and responsibility and time and effort.

    i think a lot of people have a misconception that being asked to be in a wedding party is so honorable and to some it is but in general it's a lot more responsibility than people may realize!

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    I’d way rather be a guest than in the wedding party at this point!
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  • E
    Devoted February 2023
    Elycia ·
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    I was just a guest at my brother's wedding and it was so refreshing. His wife chose a few of my other sisters, who she is genuinely close to, to be involved and there were never any hard feelings. I had fun being able to witness the ceremony with full view from the seats and being able to spend the entire night with my own fiance and family with no other responsibilities.

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