Do you send RSVP to guests who have told you they can't come?

When you say RSVP, I assume you mean invitation. Yes, if you sent them a save the date, you send them an invitation, regardless of whether or not you think they can make it.

Do you mean an invitation? Yes, you should still send them.

Yes send them still (assuming you mean invitations with an RSVP card) things might've changed.

Yupp, still send an invite!

The only issue I see with sending an invitation is that the guests who have already told you they can't come might think you are fishing for a gift. Not saying you would be, but it might cross their mind.

My wedding is a DW for most if my guests and I had a couple tell me they couldn't make it when I sent STDs. I just basically said hey no problem but I'll still send you the invite just in case

Even though they told me they couldn't come, I would probably send an invite regardless. 1) it officially confirms they aren't coming 2) it will be easier to track if you have all of them. 3) things might change from the time you send STDs and invites. You never know!

Besides, general rule of thumb is if an STD is given then and invite is given.

I would still send the invite even if they've mentioned they can't make - just in case.

Going to the chapel, interesting point. OP, definitely send them an invite, but you might call them and just say that they are still on your guest list and you sent them an invite just in case their plans change! In case you're worried they might think you only did so to get a gift. Just a thought.

My FH and I were at a wedding previously this year where a great aunt and uncle told us they were unable to attend our wedding because they have a grandchild getting married the same day. This was before we even sent out save the dates. So we did send them a save the date with a note saying "We are sorry you can't make our wedding, but we thought you might enjoy our picture for your fridge!" We have decided against sending an invitation to them, though. It just seems gift grabby to us since we talked to them about this in person.

Yes, you should send the entire invitation suite anyway.

Yes, definitely. You never know, they might be able to rearrange something and attend. Best to plan for them and leave it for them to decline.

Send invite. You could include a note saying "I know you mentioned you likely wouldn't be able to come but we wanted to make sure you know you're still included if your plans change!"

Hi CruiseBride - I'd definitely send them an RSVP just so they know that they're still invited. Maybe their plans changed?

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I had a few of these, I still sent the invitation and RSVP card because I had already purchased them, and I love them and wanted to share