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C.C.
Super August 2017

Do You Reserve the First Few Rows for Family?

C.C., on July 12, 2017 at 8:25 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

I'm currently trying to finish every little wedding detail, and one of the "wedding shopping lists" I was reading on pinterest mentioned reserved signs to put on the first few rows for family. Is this neccasary? Is this something you did/will do? My first instinct is that I would assume people would know not to sit in the front row unless you're family, but maybe I'm wrong. I'd love to hear your thoughts!

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Latest activity by Sheri, on July 13, 2017 at 12:31 AM
  • Ashley
    Super February 2018
    Ashley ·
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    There will always be those few that don't know this or don't care about it if nothing is posted about it

    If you can swing it, Id say go for it. It will help clarify things and that way noone is trying to come to you on the day of.

    However I don't believe is not completely needed.

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  • Megan
    Super October 2018
    Megan ·
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    I don't think it's necessary but you can always do it. I will probably mark the first couple rows myself.

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  • C.C.
    Super August 2017
    C.C. ·
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    Thanks Ashley! That's true, I could definitely see some people not caring about where they sit or not thinking about it.

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  • IzziJones
    Super October 2018
    IzziJones ·
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    I would reserve the first two on each side for family (depending on how big the number of immediate family is)

    There's always going to be someone who doesn't know and sits there.

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  • C.C.
    Super August 2017
    C.C. ·
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    Ooh good point Lindsay!! I'll make sure to let everyone know.

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  • Mrs. Barton
    VIP July 2017
    Mrs. Barton ·
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    We reserved 1st row for parents and grandparents. Rest was open seating because people are assholss

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  • Kathleen Smith
    Kathleen Smith ·
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    I came right to posting. Do not assume anything. Time and again, I have seen guests take seats at both the ceremony and reception that were obviously intended for VIPs. They were always asked to move and were always embarrassed. One time a woman made a scene when asked to move.

    When signs were very visible, there will always be a few people who march up to the front or center and still debate whether or not those signs are meant for them. People amaze me.

    Have signs or rope the row off. Have signs at VIP tables.

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  • TheHamWhites
    Super March 2018
    TheHamWhites ·
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    I'm reserving the first row for dads, moms, and grandparents.

    ETA: I have ushers that'll be seating people.

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  • Sheri
    Super May 2020
    Sheri ·
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    People should know but I would play it safe and put a sign out or make sure your usher asks people when they escort them to their seats

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