I have hired a MUA and a hair stylist for my wedding. My stylist is an acquaintance/friend that I played recreational sports with. We haven't played together in more than a year. I went to her because I like her and knew she could do the job well. I don't think I am getting any special deal. I'm paying her a fair wage for the job (I think). She wasn't going to be on my guest list because we haven't hung out in a long while and aren't especially close.
When we did my trial run, she mentioned how she would show up to do hair in sweats, but would go home to change for the wedding. I was caught off guard. I don't want to expand the guest list, but it isn't a huge deal. I'm wondering, are you suppose to invite your vendors to attend the event if they aren't your DOC or caterer?