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UnderTheJuneWillows
VIP June 2016

Do you invite your Hair/makeup pros?

UnderTheJuneWillows, on March 29, 2016 at 5:32 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

I have hired a MUA and a hair stylist for my wedding. My stylist is an acquaintance/friend that I played recreational sports with. We haven't played together in more than a year. I went to her because I like her and knew she could do the job well. I don't think I am getting any special deal. I'm paying her a fair wage for the job (I think). She wasn't going to be on my guest list because we haven't hung out in a long while and aren't especially close.

When we did my trial run, she mentioned how she would show up to do hair in sweats, but would go home to change for the wedding. I was caught off guard. I don't want to expand the guest list, but it isn't a huge deal. I'm wondering, are you suppose to invite your vendors to attend the event if they aren't your DOC or caterer?

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Latest activity by OG Dianna, on March 29, 2016 at 10:37 PM
  • FutureMarineWifexo
    Super August 2016
    FutureMarineWifexo ·
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    From what I saw on here recently you're not obligated to invite MUA and hair stylists if you're not paying them to stay for touch ups.

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  • FFW
    Master August 2016
    FFW ·
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    Its not a must to invite vendors like MUAs & hair stylist. She probably considers you a friend, which is why she said that. She probably doesn't realize you aren't that close to her.

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  • Niki
    Master June 2016
    Niki ·
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    A lot my brides invite me, which I have honestly always found kinda odd. I don't usually stay though. I charge by the hour if they want me to stay for touchups.

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  • UnderTheJuneWillows
    VIP June 2016
    UnderTheJuneWillows ·
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    Thanks, all. And good point on feeding the vendors. That makes sense. She is a kind lady and I do like her. I just left all the former teammates from that league off, as a number of them (not her) would just view it as a party opportunity and that's it. I appreciate the feedback.

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  • jewles322
    Master March 2015
    jewles322 ·
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    I only invited my MUA/hair stylist since I considered her and her husband friends. I still paid her a considerable amount--even though she did give a discount

    I did not invite her assistant to our wedding, as I met her the day of. (but knew she was bringing an assistant).

    Her assistant didn't stay.

    You're not obligated to invite them, I agree with what @FFW said.

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  • Kristy
    Master November 2015
    Kristy ·
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    I would also be taken aback if she mine said that to me. Since you have an outside relationship and you have somewhat included her to be a part of your special day, I also am not too surprised that she would assume she is invited. It is completely up to you. If it were up to me, I would probably just extend the invite in this case lol. It might save a very awkward conversation about how she is not invited, and then you might also feel awkward the day of when she is making you pretty

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  • Katrina Rose
    VIP October 2016
    Katrina Rose ·
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    I used to work with the hair stylists and MUA for our wedding. I have invited them as guests since they're still my friends too.

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  • OG Dianna
    Master March 2017
    OG Dianna ·
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    Nope you're not obligated to invite them.

    I'm inviting my MUA because I've known her for over seven years and consider her a friend.

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