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Desirea
Just Said Yes April 2020

Do you invite them?

Desirea, on June 19, 2019 at 1:25 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 9
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My fiancé and I are at a lost for words. We have been planning our wedding since September and I keep pushing the date hoping his parents will come around. They dislike or for more accuracy hate me. Mind you I’ve done nothing I was just going to invite them but they have both said rude this about me and my parents what do I do? My fiancé barely talks to them but they are his parents honestly he doesn’t care either way.

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Latest activity by Melle, on June 19, 2019 at 11:35 AM
  • Anna
    Super April 2020
    Anna ·
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    If I were you i would see if my fh would care If they weren't there. If he doesnt, I wouldn't invite them. But you can send the invite. If they show up good, if not, you guys did your part in reaching out to them. That's on them not you. You cant please everyone.
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  • KiwiDerbyBride
    VIP May 2015
    KiwiDerbyBride ·
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    Follow your fiancé’s lead. If he wants to invite them, invite them. If he doesn’t, then don’t. If he doesn’t want a relationship with them, don’t be the one to insist on it.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Agree with this completely.
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  • Sweetness
    Dedicated March 2023
    Sweetness ·
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    I agree with all of the above. You can't force people to get along, or sometimes even be civil with one another. You don't need the extra stress that it's causing. I say send the invite anyway, but don't expect them to turn up. If they don't want to be there for their son's wedding, regardless of how they feel about you, leave them to it. If anyone looks back on the wedding with regrets on this issue, I guarantee it won't be you.

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  • Kelly
    VIP October 2020
    Kelly ·
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    Have your fiance decide if they are coming or not. They're his parents so it's his call. If he says no then they're not.
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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
    Nicole ·
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    I agree with others. If your FH is okay with it then I wouldn’t invite them. It’s ultimately up to him.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I agree with everyone else. Let your FH make the decision and go with that. Don’t try to be the peace keeper.
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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
    Laura ·
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    I'm in agreement with the others on this one. Yes they're his parents, but if your FH doesn't want them there then don't invite them. This day is about the two of you and your love

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I would invite them regardless as extending an olive branch but if he doesn't want to then that's just what will have to happen.

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