Do you invite all coworkers to your wedding?

How big is the office? I almost went that route but not everyone can get that day off and to be honest I don’t think everyone is expecting an invite. The people who I connected with and our also my friends outside of work are getting invited individually☺️

Honestly I didn't invite any co-workers because yes you need to invite their spouses and it gets really tricky on where to draw the line, like for me I work closely with 2 departments, and I've also known a few others since I was a kid. So the list of co-workers just kept growing because it felt like if I invite this person then I need to invite that person and then would double because they are all married. It just worked out better to not invite any so no one feels left out and I was able to stick to my budget

View Quoted Comment You issue individual invitations to their home addresses,( not in front of others at work). It is not a secret. Just general good manners not to talk about any party only some are invited to, in front of non-invited people, unless they ask about it. It is perfectly fine to invite some, whom you feel a strong connection to, and socialize with outside of work and work parties. And not invite most others.

If you inviting everyone in your office to limit who is solely in charge of rsvp’ing For everyone at the office it is best to just send one invite to each person in your office. I would imagine it being a stressful nightmare if one invite was sent for the entire office

I wouldn’t feel obligated. We aren’t doing any “just because” guests... only inviting people that we actually want there surrounding us with their love and support.

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I work in a doctor's office....if 6 people take off work on my wedding day...it'll be quite obvious.

I wish... But it's gonna be family and close friends only.

Well, so..... we aren't inviting anyone from either of our current work places.

However, we are inviting absolutely everyone from the small business we worked at when we met....... those three people being FH, his dad, and myself.