I've vented a few times on how i was both coordinator and planner. I learned that most women (overall) have a good day but it's not the perfect day or best day ever. There are things that are bound to happen. It's been 3 months and I'm over some little things, like adding baby's breath to bouquets when i specifically asked not to have them. The BM is kind of the black sheep in my husband's family and I've accepted his rebel-quirky ways. He mentioned my husband experiencing something inappropriate when they were teenagers. Knowing he was giving a speech, I had a feeling he would say something and even it's still a bit embarrassing, it's whatever.
My husband's grandmother's brother in law, swopped in and grabbed the mic after the BM speech. (Note: we specifically were very strict with speeches. We only had the BM and MOH do them; no parents, no open mic). Anyhoo - my husband's whole family (immediate and extended) are all inappropriate and give sex jokes because it's so hilarious. His grandma's brother in law said something very inappropriate statement (subtle) by toasting a woman's organ. I knew once he had the mic, we needed someone to grab it but our emcee was dumfounded and stood there. My in laws were recording and it was hilarious to them and they were laughing. My parents were pissed. I don't know if that's something I'll get over. A wedding is supposed to be classy. I THOUGHT i made it full proof to prevent inappropriate things like (from happening) but I guess not. Later, I found out my father in law confronted the grandma's brother in law about the statement but whatever, it's over...can't go back. His side of the family got a KICK out of it and it made THEIR night special. What wedding? Just in poor, poor taste in a formal setting. I hope it's not reflection on me or my husband. I just need to let it go that people find it hilarious
