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Do people send out Save the Dates for an engagement party?? Is this a thing?

Andrea, on July 3, 2018 at 6:41 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11

A friend recently told me she is sending out Save the Date notifications for an engagement party. I may be totally out of it, but I've never heard of that. Am I missing something? Why wouldn't someone just send invitations. Does that mean they will send out save the dates AND invitations?? I plan to do that with our wedding of course (Save the Date then the invitation later), but am unaware of it for an engagement party.

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Latest activity by MrsD, on July 5, 2018 at 5:56 PM
  • Jessica
    VIP October 2018
    Jessica ·
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    Uhh..?
    Id just send invitations. Maybe shes sending wedding STDs and invitations for the engagement party around the same time?
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    Super August 2018
    FutureMrsO ·
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    Haven’t heard of that for an encampment party
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  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    Pretty soon we will see STD's for everything. Everyone will get so worried that someone might make another commitment before they receive an invitation to anything.

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    Expert October 2018
    Nicole ·
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    I've never heard of sending them out for an engagement party. To each their own.
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    I’ve never heard of save the dates for an engagement party. How far out is the engagement party?? Save the dates only really make sense if you’re sending them 6+ months out...
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  • Jillian
    Dedicated August 2019
    Jillian ·
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    Yummm. Never heard of that before..
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  • LyraGardenia
    Devoted June 2018
    LyraGardenia ·
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    I've never seen this either, but my parents did get a save the date for a friend's birthday party last year, so you never know!

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  • rica
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    rica ·
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    I've never heard of this. A wedding is a huge deal and I go out of my way to make sure I'm available. An engagement party I wouldn't commit to far in advance.

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  • Kay
    Super November 2018
    Kay ·
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    I firstly dont understand Save the Dates for a wedding but I caved to social norms but an engagement party, never heard of such a thing and just seems silly and OTT.

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    Judith ·
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    Most people don't even need save the dates for a wedding. I have never heard of sending them for any other event, wedding related or other social engagements. People usually should not be asked to travel more than locally for the lesser parties.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    No, just invites are necessary for engagement party, couples shower, bridal shower. You only need Save the Dates for weddings, and they aren't even required then!

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