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Jan87
Super August 2014

Do I need to put a stamp on an RSVP envelope if they can rsvp via e-mail?

Jan87, on April 23, 2014 at 6:53 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 16

Hi everyone. Quick question: I decided on an after thought to give guests the option to RSVP through email. I put little inserts in the invitations stating this. Do I really need to buy a stamp for them anyway? Is it a "waste of money" if they can send an email with their response? I don't want to be rude. The last 2 weddings I got invited to, the RSVPs had to be mailed in but a stamp wasn't provided and I wasn't the least bit offended. I have heard though that that is "poor etiquette". I am thinking that older guests that aren't tech savvy will be given stamps but others won't. Just double checking that this would be okay?? Thanks!!

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Latest activity by Bennett=blessed, on April 24, 2014 at 8:52 AM
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    Master October 2013
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    Yes, you should put a stamp on the envelope.

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  • heidi
    Super August 2014
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    I would just so you don't have an excuse.

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  • Kaegurl
    Master June 2014
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    I agree with PP.

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  • **Mrs.Smedstad
    Super October 2014
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    I am putting stamps on all mine. I just feel it would be rude to not have postage paid for them.

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  • Jesse's Boo
    Super July 2014
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    Yes! Put a stamp on them. Reading so many threads about RSVPs, and guests not returning them, i would suggest the stamps.

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  • Laudie
    Master October 2013
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    Stamp it

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  • Alejandra
    Master May 2014
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    Even with stamps it's been difficult getting a response back, don't give them any more reasons not to rsvp.

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  • Meg
    Devoted May 2014
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    Yes, stamp 'em. And no matter how easy you make it, they still won't all take the time to send them. I have only had 3 out of 60 RSVPs come in the mail and the due date is a week away, invites were mailed a month ago.

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  • Pezzy
    Master May 2014
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    If you are giving them the option of mailing, stamp it.

    Seriously, what are you doing 100 invites, 45 bucks is nothing in the grand scheme of the wedding,

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  • FutureMrsMorle
    Super July 2014
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    I stamped all of mine - I think that you will have a much harder time getting rsvp's back for those who aren't that online user friendly and it may create more hassle for you in the long run.

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  • Courtney
    VIP January 2015
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    I'm only doing online RSVPs.

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  • PhillyReally
    Super July 2014
    PhillyReally ·
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    I wools put a stamp on them!!

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  • Lisa
    Dedicated June 2014
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    I totally forgot to put stamps on the majority of my RSVP envelopes lol .. Oops! I put on them though to RSVP via Facebook, calling/text or email though..

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  • Celia Milton
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    Yes. People are horrible about RSVP'ing anyway. Don't give them another way to screw you up.

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  • Pancakes
    Master October 2015
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    Honestly, in my opinion, ettiquette is really dependent on your group. Our friend sent the younger crowd Save the Dates by email. And not a single person had a problem with that. Saved them stamps and money on cards, and all of us preferred email anyways since we had an electronic version to keep with us instead of a paper one to lose. My cousin had a small reception after having a ceremony previously. She didn't have return RSVPs at all. She just had a phone number or an email. Because she knew none of us would mind and the younger people would be better with email and the older people would want to call and chat up congratulations anyways. I really think this is on a case by case basis. Basically, everything about weddings is a case by case basis. My other cousin had a reception in a barn where their friend's wedding gift was buying and grilling their food. None of us cared. But we have also had people in the family spend lots of money and get fancy Cake Boss-like cakes. So do whatever you feel is appropriate for your guests. I wouldn't mind at all if you only had an email RSVP for the younger crowd but stamped cards for the older crowd.

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  • Bennett=blessed
    VIP June 2014
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    If you're giving them the option to RSVP via mail...then I'd say yes.

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