Do I need an accept/decline box on RSVP?

I think that's fine. I would assume they would put 0 if none were attending.

I don't know why the color of the colors changed when I added it to this post. I hope it doesn't do that when I print them!

I would have very clear "Accept" and "decline" options. As we've seen over and over again on WW, people are dummies when it comes to RSVPs, so make it as easy for them as possible!

Also, as a note with the song request, I've heard that it can be really tricky to fit all the songs in, plus DJs don't love having to take a bunch of song requests before the night has even started (at least this is what our DJ told us when we asked!).

@Princess I already spoke with my DJ and I told her I was doing this and that I am not expecting her to play everything. I just thought it might help her (and myself) figure out what my guests are going to enjoy. I am super worried about no one dancing!

Omg I am doing the same thing with the music. I also am scared no one will dance. A lot of people say even if no one does everyone will be talking and stuff so it wont be awkward. But that would make it pointless to spend the money on a DJ. I this you RSVP is fine like that. People will know to put 0 if they aren't attanding

We put "___ / _#_ will attend" where we wrote in the #, and like half of the people left it blank. Some underlined "will," some wrote notes (indicating they were excited to come or sorry they weren't able to), and some crossed off the "will" or wrote in a "not". I didn't think it was that confusing, but apparently it was. If I had to do it again, I'd make check boxes for accept / decline.

Are the additional lines in the middle for listing the specific people coming? i would just have check boxes, this seems confusing

The additional lines are where I am going to put the guests names so its clear who is invited. The biggest household we are inviting has 4 people in it so that's why there is 4 lines.

Would it be better if I did "we reserved ___ seats in your honor", listed the names, and then did accept/decline boxes and if someone can't attend hope they cross out the name?

Or what about if I listed the names, put ___ out of ___ will be attending, and then add the accept/decline boxes?