I have three candidates for Maid of Honor and honestly none are that great. All three are married so no option for Matron of Honor option. One is a family member, we grew up together like sisters but we also fought like sisters. In our teens we stopped talking for 2 years. When she got married it was a court house wedding that I was told only immediate family was apart of only to find out she did have 2 friends present, that was years ago but still. I love her but she's always bullied, me even now as an adult. Next option is my longest friend of 20plus years, who is also like a sister. The thing is, in college she traveled abroad and started a whole new life across the sea. We facetime every couple months and she tries to visit the states at least once a year to visit everyone. I can't afford flights to her (which is why I missed her wedding) but if she has a layover or a cancelled flight (her job allows travel) I'll drop everything to go see her. We may be growing apart in recent years. Hell, we've been with our significant others for over 7years and haven't met either in person. If she is MoH I feel like the duties would end up falling on my family member I mentioned above and/or my 3rd candidate who was my college roommate for years. Surprise, she's also like a sister to me! However, she can be very pushy with her opinions and doesn't take criticism well. Her wedding was very overrun by her family and I'm already noticing some suggestions she's given me are more things she'd like versus what I would like. She's more than willing to help with anything, and even saved things from her own wedding for me that I didn't even know she was going to do! I was a bridesmaid in hers btw. But, I worry me vetoing her left and right on things could injure our relationship, which has also dissolved some since college. Still, I feel like she's itching for me to ask her to be MoH. Thanks for reading, and I'm open to any opinions on the matter
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