Do I invite a friend I'm no longer close to?

If she has no interest in your friendship, move on. As hard as it is. It feels like a breakup. I was a MOH for my best friends 2 years ago and we haven't talked since. We had a falling out over her wedding and I have finally cut her out of my life. It sucks but sometimes you have to let people go.

It sounds like she has ended your friendship. If you are trying to repair the relationship and she has no interest in doing so, it is time to move on.

Invitation to your wedding will not change that. But you have almost a year to decide and things may change. Don't invite or not invite people this far out.

I guess you ladies are right. It's just hurtful to throw away 12 years of friendship but I can't force this if she doesn't want it. Thank you for the insight!

It seems like she ended the friendship and wouldn't attend if you invited her. If you want to send an invitation, I would be prepared for a no or no response.

This is why they say to wait 6-8 months before your wedding to ask your BP. Relationships change.

No. You don't, and you certainly don't do it now.

This is easy. She has no interest in resolving the issues, so the friendship is over. Time to move on.

It sounds like she has no interest in your friendship. I would not invite her.

It seems like she has ended the friendship and, honestly, an invite to your wedding likely will not fix that. What placed a wedge between you (difference political viewpoints, likely meaning differences in values) probably isnt changing anytime soon.

I would leave it alone and move on. That sounds like negativity you don't need around.

Would you buy this person lunch if yes then invite them, if no then don't

I wouldn't invite them... but not because they comment on my Facebook regarding my wedding.. but because it seems like she called to "chat" about your difference in politics..

I wanted to invite my best friend from HS.. as we happened to both get engaged on the same day.. what are the odds. She said , oh we should plan our weddings together. . And never heard from her.. mind you we really did lose touch after HS.. it was on both of us.. well she already had her wedding. . I wasn't invited. I understood, I thought I would still invite her.. but after talking with FH , he said why!?! So I agreed. its hurtful, but she clearly didn't want to reconnect after all these yrs. Soo I would say, move on, as I did.

I have a similar issue with a friend of 18 years. It happens, you grow apart. Don't invite her. Or at least don't decide until later.

I'm going to say no

Go your separate way and find someone who cares & appreciates you!

Move on

I had a similar issue. my best friend wasn't excited for me and thought it happen too soon. she called to congratulate me when she found out but then I went to dinner with her and our other friend and instead of being a excited and happy night out, I was getting question after question, like an interrogation all while my so called best friend sat there silent. Had not a single word to say. I stopped talking to her after that night. Found out she was asking about me to a mutual friend, so we texted, I let her have it....we met up to talk it out in person...everything went well.....we haven't spoke since.....Long story short --- DON'T BOTHER. Move along. Sometimes friendships just can't be saved

I wouldn't invite her. I'm sorry she hurt your feelings. I don't think it's neccessary to air our laundry lists of beefs with people. No doubt she did things to annoy you as well. You don't need someone like that in your life.