Nothing against anyone but I’m trying to keep the wedding small. I’m already over my maximum amount of people and that’s with excluding some family members.
I feel like if I can’t invite some members of my family it wouldn’t be appropriate to invite my dad’s girlfriends adult children. They offered to foot the bill for them but it just doesn’t feel right to me.
Some back history, my mom passed a few years ago and the wedding has been kind of difficult knowing she won’t be present. My dad has also mentioned to me his present girlfriend gets weird about my mom being brought up.
I know it may seem like a polite thing to do to invite her kids, but I would prefer my dad’s girlfriend to take a back seat as much as possible during the wedding, so her wanting to invite her kids feels like she’s unknowingly crossing a boundary. She thinks it would be nice for them to meet the family, but I think they can do that on their own time…
Am I just bring a brat or is this justifiable?
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