Do i give up the reception and elope?

So I’m not sure how this fits into a category, but planning my wedding has been a nightmare since I started 5 months ago. The only positive experience I’ve had is picking out my dress. No one understands that we may not want a cake in the traditional sense, there’s been an uproar about how we want to attend cocktail hour with no formal entry announcement, my FMIL went ahead and made a room block when we told her we hadn’t even signed the contracts for the venue because she thought the rooms were too expensive (if we get the rate we want, her rooms are $11 cheaper). I’ve walked into the grocery store to overhear my FMIL criticizing every aspect of our wedding to my FSIL, and that hurt my feelings beyond belief. My mom sat on the redlined contracts for almost 3 weeks and then said it was my fault for not reminding her and that she wasn’t going to be excited since her opinions weren’t well received in the beginning (I’m trying to decide when she was excited; when she FaceTimed from a venue we really loved the day before we were supposed to visit and spent 45 minutes pointing out everything she hated, or when she tried to establish her coworker as my planner coordinator, but wouldn’t let us meet him for concern we’d ask about his professional experience). Everything we want or have liked has been deemed wrong/inappropriate, from my shoes to my decision to not wear earrings (since my ears aren’t pierced) and it has me wondering if this circus is worth it and if it’s time to consider eloping. No money has been spent, and I’m becoming apathetic about the whole thing. I understand that because my parents are contributing financially, and therefore, have some say, but I feel like I’m becoming a walking prop who is supposed to just go along with everything. I can’t go 15 more months like this, but I don’t want to ruin this experience for my fiancé either. It’s not just my day, it’s our day, and I want it to be just as special as he deserves it to be.