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Savvy October 2018

Do bridesmaids pay for their own hair and make up?

Chelsie, on July 16, 2018 at 1:13 PM Posted in Hair and Makeup 0 15
Hi ladies I really need your advice I have three bridesmaids and one maid of honor I would like my pictures to look amazing but I don't know what the proper etiquette is when it comes to this do I make them pay for it or do I pay for it??? I already have alot other things I'm paying for and that would add at least $500 more on top of my budget what do you think I should do and what did you guys do??? thank you!!!

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Latest activity by Moniqua, on June 24, 2019 at 6:47 AM
  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·
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    If you are requiring them to get hair and makeup done then you should offer to pay for them. I am not making them get anything done. I let all of my girls know that we will have a HMU artist (and her assistant) there the morning of the wedding and the cost and if they'd like to get theirs done they can if not I don't mind either way. You definitely can't make them get it done and force them to pay if it doesn't fit their budget though.

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  • K
    Just Said Yes November 2018
    Krystal ·
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    My Maid of honor and my bridesmaids paid for their own hair and makeup
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  • C
    Savvy October 2018
    Chelsie ·
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    Did you give them the option too?
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  • HayMrsO
    Master October 2018
    HayMrsO ·
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    If you require them to have it done, then you should pay for it. I know, it sucks. Mine is costing us $800 for myself and 2 bridesmaids. But I want to pamper them that day, so I am paying it.

    Now, you could always pay for the hair and then let them know if they want their makeup done, it will be $xx. I have seen that done. But then you need to be prepared for some to not want to shell out the extra cash and do their own.


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    Savvy October 2018
    Chelsie ·
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    Thank you all of you for your feedback a lot of great ideas... I'll probably just pay for the hair and then they can choose if they want makeup done ..👍😉
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    Savvy October 2018
    Chelsie ·
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    Ill probably end up paying it all. I want them to feel pampered too!
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  • Anne
    Master April 2017
    Anne ·
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    You should pay for it. I paid for everyone's hair and makeup because I wanted it professionally done and cohesive.

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  • Brittney
    Devoted September 2018
    Brittney ·
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    If you're requiring it then you pay. If not then you can make it optional for them to pay if they want.
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  • Darcy
    Dedicated May 2019
    Darcy ·
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    You can offer to split it too, that’s what I’m doing. In a wedding I’m a bridesmaids the bride first offered to pay for our hair and makeup was optional, months after that she decided to make it all optional. Just stick with your decision so your bridesmaids aren’t confused as to why you changed your mind.
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  • queenbee
    VIP October 2018
    queenbee ·
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    If you’re requiring them to have hair and makeup done, you pay. I’m paying for my girls to have their hair done, and told everyone makeup was optional and provided them pricing. Two of my girls are doing their own makeup and my sister (MOH) and Mom are paying to have their makeup done. Saves me about $400 after tip by not paying for their makeup!
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    Savvy October 2018
    Chelsie ·
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    Thats a great idea!!!!👍☺thank you!!!! Thank you everyone for all your help!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I've been in 2 weddings and paid for hair & makeup myself both times, it was optional though. I just opted to get it done. I'm paying for all my bridesmaids & moms hair and makeup.

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    Devoted August 2018
    Emily ·
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    When I was a bridesmaid, the bride paid for all of our hair and makeup, and just asked that we take care of the tip.

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  • Randa
    Devoted October 2018
    Randa ·
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    I am paying for a portion for all my girls. Hair and Makeup is $180 per girl, so they are all paying $100 and I am paying the difference. However the last wedding I was in, it was not paid for. So I guess it just depends..

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  • Moniqua
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Moniqua ·
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    I’m covering the cost of makeup for all bridesmaids and purchasing the shoes and accessories. They were responsible for their dresses and hair. They don’t seem to have an issue with it.
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