Divorcing Already

I'm so sorry to hear this. You deserve so much better! You deserve someone who will reciprocate your love and level of commitment. He is out there. I know you love this man but it's ok to realize that loving someone and them being the right person for you are not the same thing. I pray you find the strength and peace to get through this. I also pray that when you are ready the right man will come into your life and treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

View Quoted Comment Thank you sooo much Sharon, thank you...you are so right I'm not going to lie it hurt sooo bad I been going to sleep and waking up crying... But god will work it out in the end. God knows I tried and wanted the best for us... He just wouldn't accept that from me. Pray for me that I continue to get stronger

I am devastated for you reading this - his actions are deplorable on so many levels and I can't even begin to fathom how you must be feeling.

It doesn't take away from your pain but I am a big believer that everything happens for a reason, and in my mother's words "you gotta taste s&%t before you get caviar" - I am sure there will be bigger and better things in store for you and your children and that there is someone out there who will someday show you the kind of love, attention and devotion that you deserved.

The ex will get what is coming to him, I am sure you are not the first (or the last) that he has acted so horribly toward and there is a lot of karma that will be heading his way no doubt!

View Quoted Comment Yes ma'am thank you so much and you are so right, he use to abuse me call my autistic boys names manipulate me and everything. I fell for who I thought he could be and not who he was. Since the separation my oldest has become angry and aggressive but is getting back to himself slowly but surely, I am starting a new business should be opening in two weeks so I count it as my blessing. Idk what god has planned for me n my boys but I know he has our back in the best way... Wow sh#+ before caviar lol I love that. I had to go through that torture n I got married to be with one man and for love. I know god will reward me and my boys because Lord knows I gave my all and risk n lost so much due to what I believe is love. Thanks do much for your encouragement

Wow, I'm so sad to hear about how you're being treated. Honestly, it sounds like you may have dodged a bullet there. Focus on your kids and your new business. I hope you heal well, take care.

You are gorgeous and sound super kind, you will find someone worthy no problem. Until then, focus on you and your kiddos and try a new hobby for distraction!

View Quoted Comment You're exactly right. Continue to pray for me because it's hard but I will make it

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much ❤️

This is so sad to read. You and your boys deserve so much more. This man does NOT deserve you! While I’m sure you love him, do not let this man break your spirit. You will be better without him and will find that special person for you when it’s meant to be. Focus on your family, your boys, friends, etc… and choose your own happiness. I believe in Karma and he will get what’s coming to him. Choose to move forward and take care of yourself and always remember that it’s better to be alone and happy then with someone who doesn’t respect you. Good luck!! 🥰

View Quoted Comment So right! Thank you for taking your time out to encourage me and give me wisdom 💕

View Quoted Comment Thanks Jacks! 💖

I’m so sorry you went through this. What I can tell you is that this man did you a FAVOR! So you even know the amount of good men out there? Do you even know that you don’t NEED a man to be happy? Let me tell you there is nothing better than someone showing you who they are before any more time is wasted on them. It’s unfortunate and it hurts but you will get past this and you will be happier than ever. Think about all the little things that were a problem and now consider them to be NOT YOUR PROBLEM anymore! Best of luck to you love ❤️

View Quoted Comment You said a mouthful of truth. Thank you so much and I’m getting better thanks so much