So, my 10 year old daughter has decided to be a flower girl instead of my MOH, because she wants to wear a white dress instead of the purple bm dress LOL! So, if my divorced sister is my MOH, is she the maid or matron of honor? Stupid question, but this wedding stuff can be confusing. And if I decide to have 2 MOH, would my other sister, who is married, but separated and dating someone else, be maid or matron of honor?