My fiancé’s parents are divorced and we’re having trouble deciding on how to do the procession with his family. We want to remain respectful, but he has a very strained relationship with his dad and step mom and we don’t want to falsely portray that their relationship is fine. If the relationship was fine, he would walk his stepmom down the aisle with his dad following behind them. If that’s the most polite way to do it, we will. But we feel like it would be fake.
At the same time, we don’t want to do anything too different in their procession to draw attention to the strained relationship.
If anyone has any advice on what we could do, we would gladly appreciate it!