Divorced Family Member Invites

If your uncle has a girlfriend, she should be invited. That doesn't mean your aunt needs a plus one. Even though they still live together, you should be mailing 2 separate invitations to them.

Id give them all a plus one. Its only 3 ppl. And only one is in a serious rship so I doubt you have to worry. You'll knw how to best attack once rsvps come back.

My uncle and his second wife is invited to the wedding. I'm also inviting his first ex-wife and her current husband. She was a big part of my life and if he doesn't like, he doesn't have to come.

I think you should extend plus 1s to them

I believe that every adult is entitled to attend a wedding with an escort. Not everyone feels that way, but I do. It's quite rare that a couple receives 100% of accepted RSVPs. We're talking about three extra guests, The aunts who aren't dating anyone will probably attend alone, but even if they don't, you can probably manage the other two plus ones. Just seat them away from each other. Their lifestyles are not your problem.

You have 160 on your guest list but not rsvp'd yes yet?? .. You can assume that 3 people won't be able to come out of so many..

Thanks for the advice everyone. I will probably just add a plus one to all aunts and uncles, chances are they won't bring someone unless they are actually dating someone. I understand that I will get some people that rsvp no. But it's stressful seeing that number go up and up when you know you are already working with a tight number for your venue! I agree that all adults should get a plus one. Most of my friends are in relationships so I included a plus one for all friends, because there was a small handful without a plus one. ....I know they say 25% of the invite list will rsvp no but I mean, who wouldn't want to attend MY wedding??? (sarcasm)

I say give them all a plus one. You dont want to be that bride who says "OMG my aunt wants me to add a plus one when I only invited her!" Save yourself the drama now.

My invites had an inner and outer envelope. the outer one we addressed it to just the 'person', and the inner said 'person and guest'. You could do it that way so she wouldn't see? I can't afford to give everyone a plus one so this option was nice for us.