Divorced Catholic to remarry without annulment

Celia would know which denominations could marry you, AND she could also tell you which religions have bigger congregations in Ireland. I would definitely suggest Unitarian, but I'm not sure if they're easy to find there.

Do you live in Ireland as well, or will you just go there to get married? You could have a civil ceremony there, and then a religious blessing in the US, in one of the more liberal churches.

Also, and I apologize for suggesting this, but some priests would be willing to do a blessing ceremony for, eh, a donation. When DH and I tried to find a priest to marry us (neither of us is divorced, but he's not Catholic), there was one that hinted that if we made a 'donation', he'd perform the marriage. We stormed out after telling him we weren't bribing the church, or starting our married life with a bribe, but if you really want a Catholic ceremony that's an option too.

@Novak: He has been a US citizen for 10 years now, no worries there.

@VC: We live in California, so we're just having the wedding there. My family is in CT his family is in Ireland. My family loves to travel, his family has a lot of kids, so Ireland is the most convenient and meaningful location for us.

I did a quick google search and found a few resources that could help you:

http://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/don-t-want-to-be-married-by-a-priest-call-the-solemniser-1.2195526

http://interfaithministers.ie/

http://spiritualceremonies.ie/

http://www.dublinunitarianchurch.org/life-events/weddings/

http://humanism.ie/ceremonies-2/weddings/