Distant Friend - Invite or Not?

I wouldn't invite her. If you have really talked to the person in a year or more, they probably shouldn't get invited to your wedding.

It may be worth it to have a conversation with her and point out that she's been distant, and is something wrong? Etc. May help resolve some issues or make you more clear on where the relationship stands.

How big is your guest list? If you have more than like 50 than yea, if you have like 20 maybe not. You will love being surrounded by friends in your big day and so I see not harm in inviting her, it's not like you are having her in your wedding party.

My only other thought is if you would be hurt if she doesn't show and has a silly excuse then I wouldn't invite her regardless of size as you don't want to hurt your feelings

If you are ready for the friendship to end, then don't invite her. If you are interested in rebuilding the friendship, invite her (and talk to her).

I see where your coming from but if you have been through a lot with her then maybe just throw it our there and let her decide if she will come or not. I think that will also help you decide where your friendship is between the 2 of you.

I would consider your guest list. If you are having a lot of guests (more than 50) I would say invite her. However, if you are only having 10 people there I would say don't invite her.

I mean I am inviting people I haven't spoken with in a year because I can't invite some without others unless I want to be shunned by my mother forever, and I am convinced my grandmother will haunt me from beyond the grave.

If you can afford to invite her maybe just send an invite and see if she comes?

The only question is do you want her there? If you want her at her wedding, send her an invitation and the ball is in her court. Don't invite her just because she was in that friend group and you are inviting everyone else. There is no obligation to do that. But it sounds like you do want her at your wedding. Talking to her before sending the invitation can't hurt. If you want to reconnect, tell her and see what happens.

If you're hoping to be friends still I would invite her. I think excluding her would be a great way to ensure the friendship is done. People get busy as life goes on and sometimes they do a bad job keeping in touch. It doesn't necessarily mean that they no longer care.

Consider your guest list... if you can invite her, I would. leave the ball in her park.. if she comes, tell her how glad you are that she was able to make it that it means so much to you.

I wouldn't invite her. I didn't invite any distant friends.