What have you become IDGAF about

Table numbers. The cake (frankly, as long as there is one, I'm fine). Ring bearer outfits.

Also, any other ways I could work in the gray color??

Basically, everything.

Lmao!!! Ok, so what I'm hearing is that by the 90 day mark everything is on the fuck-it train. LOL! Both of you ladies are within that 3 month mark, so it's funny that your responses were basically the same.

Everything.

Pretty much everything, except for being able to fit into my dress, and making sure we have a way to transport the bridal party from the photo location to the ceremony venue.

I went to a wedding last Sat. where the bride obsessed about everything being perfect, to the point of finding tealights the same colour as her pearls, BM shoes, and the macarons. Since the ceremony went longer than expected, by the time we got to the venue the tealights had burned all the wax away, so we never saw what colour they were.

I figure it's either DGAF or get stressed out, myself. and I'm definitely still on the first.

Everything, for real for real. Long as the venue, cake, DJ & photographer are paid I could care less about anything else at this point lol

Table linens, table numbers, GM attire ( if they have a suit i am letting them wear their own)

I'm going to go with everything also. I had so many visions...now its whatever is easiest and cheapest that doesn't look like poop. Tomorrow is officially 4 months. I have a feeling these 4 months are going to DRAG! Boo!

All of it. everything. I'm with the others, as long as my FH and I are dressed and we have an officiant and the marriage license IDGAF.

@Laura - yep...i hit about 3 months and i was like, IDGAF!

I had these big ideas for my invitations, like i was going to make pocket folds, which isn't a big deal but when i put it together, i didn't like it. So a friend who's getting married a few weeks after us game me her left-over invites and that's what i used. Printed them out and DONE!

I was also going to make my own chocolate candies but then i ate most of the chocolate i was going to use (yes i did) and instead of buying more, i decided to buy some small packaged chocolate at Coscto. I'll put them in the pretty boxes i've made and DONE!

The more i look at the bridesmaid dresses, the less i like them and the color. I just can't care about it or it will drive me crazy.

I'm sure there will be more as the date gets closer.

To be honest, i just want it over with at this point.

Basically anything that hasn't been done by now.

Surfergirl, FH wants to do that for his GM, just let them wear suits they already have. I really want to be ok with this, to save them money (2 are having to travel) but I am nervous they will all be different styles and look strange in the pictures.

My FMIL's feelings.

At this point, pretty much everything. Just so ready to be married.

But a big one that happened recently, is a lack of response for bridesmaids, I no longer care if you get your hair done. Your problem.

Laura- here are some inspiration pictures, i just sent these over to my GM and said if you have a gray or black suit feel free to wear it and let us know if you would rather rent and we can set something up.

Centerpieces, for some reason I was just obsessed with them now I am like "throw some fucking flowers in a vase spread some candles and that be it" lol I am getting close to just being so over wedding planning lol

Yep, everything.

Awesome SurferGirl, thanks!! I can just make sure they all have the same tie or something simple.

You guys are cracking me up.