People are trying to give me a heart attack

Before. I was like, ok whatever, just give me medicine to fix me. He told me that I should be getting a bill fromt he lab for about $30. So when I opened it yesterday? I thought I opened someone elses mail by accident. The total? $5,346! I'm like.... umm... no. I'm calling them today to let them know that they screwed up big time and there not getting a penny from me. But geez! It's a good thing I'm only 20 and don't have any heart problems! I'm paying less for the entire wedding! Ugh. So then later on in the day, fh and I had an argument cuz there were a few people in his family that rsvpd no cuz they thought his uncle wasnt invited and then he blamed me for him not knowing about it, and then we found out another family member never got an invite... and somehow this is all my fault. Um, your uncle lives with you and you told me the entire house only needed one invitation. AND it was YOUR job to get the guest list together for your side of the family. if theres people missing, cont...

Its your fault, not mine! He was all like, well I gave you the ones I had, what do you want me to do? Umm... maybe I would have liked for you to try a little? Just a little to get all the names. The rsvd date is coming and now i have to make more invites again! I am not spending $30 on another box of invitations when we only need 2 more. so he realised how stupid he was being and apologized, but geez people! lol. so were going to his familys house on the 4th of july and hes gonna get them all together and be like, 'hey guys guess what. weve never done this marriage thing before, and have no clue what were doing and no ones helping us. obviously things are gonna happen. your all invited, so get over it. if you dont wanna come cuz ur being a baby about it, then fine less we have to pay for. grow up.' lol thats exactly what he wants to say to them cuz theyre all freakin out. so that makes me feel better. now to fix this $5k bill thing. lol ok, vents over. hows everyones planning going?

Whew... when it rains, it pours, huh? I know just what you mean about people trying to give you a heart attack! Glad that you resolved the invitation issue, though, and hope it goes well with dealing with the lab bill!

Well if its not your bill your not lilable to pay it the invite issue it happens just make the invite and be done with it i guess i know its a pain but it shuts everyone up

Hear you...over the past week, i had my wallet stolen (i misplaced it at a gas station and someone walked away with it and used my debit card and two credit cards to $800 worth of damage--being returned by bank and credit card company most likely), got in a car accident (another $500 b/c of deductible), and had the radiator on the car break (unrelated, so another $300). And that means i need a rental car for a week while it gets fixed.

Well, one of the heart attack items was a good one and the other 2 sound as though: 1 down, 1 to go. Glad you and FS are gonna tell em how it is. And good luck w/ the med bill!