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Beginner October 2020

Odd Venue Layout- Need Advice...

Courtney, on November 30, 2018 at 2:03 AM Posted in Planning 0 14

Hello! So after searching for months we finally found an affordable venue!!!! The venue is actually FREE, we just have to pay for food/drinks! But since the venue is unique and not really made for big events I'm a little stressed out thinking about the mechanics of it all.... we are estimating a total of 100 people or a bit less. (We started at around 160 so we have cut down as much as we can).

First I will describe the layout (for those who live in Indianapolis/Greenwood area it will be at Vino Villa if you have ever been there). It is a wine bar set in a historic 3 story home. So outside there is a gazebo and plenty of room to have a ceremony/dancing area. Inside, The first floor does not have seating its basically the area to purchase wine/food/desserts. So all the seating is located on the 2nd and 3rd floor, about 50 people could be accommodated on each floor. I find this to be awkward since everyone would not be able to sit in the same room...

I'm struggling with how to coordinate the wedding.... At first I thought having the outside ceremony and then dinner inside, but the only place to dance is outside so then after people ate they would have to go back outside.. I wasn't sure if this would be annoying or not. Maybe I could do the entire wedding outside but of course that would be weather permitting and the inside is so cozy and cute we would be missing out on a big reason why we like the place. Then for dinner if we had it inside should we let people sit wherever or should we try to coordinate the seating? This would be a bit challenging because some seating is couches, some tables/chairs, tables are different sizes but we may be able to do it.


Anyways as you can see I'm having a lot of trouble and thinking about coordinating everything is stressing me out a bit. I want the wedding to run smoothly and not feel hectic. The owners are very laid back, we have the entire building to ourselves and basically we are free to do whatever we want which is nice! Any ideas or advice is appreciated!



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Latest activity by Courtney, on December 1, 2018 at 2:15 PM
  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
    Colleen ·
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    You should at least assign tables so families and groups don’t get split up.
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  • FirstTimeMOB
    October 2018
    FirstTimeMOB ·
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    Not a fan of the idea that your guests are split up for dinner. Anyone not sitting on the same 'floor' that the bride and groom are sitting to eat may feel like they are not as important as the others.

    Your meal service is likely to be at least an hour to 90 minutes - that's a long time to stay separated. If one 'floor' is quiet and hears the other 'floor' laughing and carrying on, how will that seem? Like two completely separate parties....

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  • Victoria
    VIP October 2018
    Victoria ·
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    I agree 100% with this. I get the excitement over a free venue, but I'd keep looking for a place where all of your guests can feel included, or cut your guest list to 50.

    Does your venue have an elevator? That's something else to think about if you have any elderly, disabled, or even injured guests. They have to get up the stairs somehow.
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  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
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    Unfortunately the logistics of this just doesn’t sound appealing. I think all of your guests should be in the same space. Having separate spaces will leave guests confused.
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  • Summerbride77
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    I agree too. The place sounds beautiful for a 50 person wedding, but large than that sounds awkward.

    You mentioned having it outdoors. Could you do dinner and dancing in a tent outside and have the cocktail hour inside? That may be the only option for you in you don't want to change the venue and you don't want to cut your guests list.

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    Master April 2019
    Brittany ·
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    I agree with the others, splitting people up (even just for dinner) would be awkward.

    And for dinner, everyone should have a chair at a table. Couches would be good for a cocktail hour but people need somewhere to put their plates/cups/silverware for dinner yaknow? They can't hold all of it or balance it on their laps.

    If I were you I'd do just a tiny bit more looking. There is a venue that checks all of your boxes somewhere!

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  • Shannon
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    Have you thought about ceremony, dinner and dancing outside and cocktail hour inside?
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    Beginner October 2020
    Courtney ·
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    No the couches have tables it is a very cozy place - it’s basically set up like a “booth” at a restaurant except it’s cozy couches! There’s plenty of seating it’s just everyone couldn’t sit on the same floor ...
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    Beginner October 2020
    Courtney ·
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    I know it’s not the perfect layout for a large wedding - We were just going to have a very small intimate wedding of 50 people or less but this venue is so affordable we can have 100 people and do our entire wedding easily for less than $5,000! It may end up being around 80 people after RSVPs come in. So why not! It’s really going to be a laid back non-traditional wedding on a Sunday so I can coordinate and do whatever I want just looking for ideas for this unique space to make the most out of it! Even if it feels “a bit awkward” at times I’ll remember the thousands of dollars I saved and I’ll be ok with it lol! I also feel great spending my money at a locally owned small business and we both looove wine and they have great food so it’s perfect for us!


    The “dancing” won’t be like the typical crazy late night dancing most weddings have at the end - we will do the traditional first dance and all that and people can dance around/mingle whatever they feel like doing after that. It is on a Sunday and we are paying for a glass of wine per person then will be a cash bar after that for beer/wines I doubt people will drink all that much. It’s really meant to be laid back and intimate where people can mingle and get to know one another and eat/drink buffet style!

    Thanks everyone for the advice!
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  • Xandria
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    It sounds like you've decided, but because you're doing it on Sunday you could consider a punch & appetizer sort of thing. If you have it at a non-meal time then you don't have to worry about where people are going to sit, and it will encourage more mingling and moving around the entire space.

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  • FirstTimeMOB
    October 2018
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    "Even if it feels “a bit awkward” at times I’ll remember the thousands of dollars I saved and I’ll be ok with it lol!"

    Forgive me, but this statement sounds like you care more about the money you're saving than considering your guests and their experience at your wedding.

    I wish you the best in your planning.

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    Beginner October 2020
    Courtney ·
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    I was asking for advice how to coordinate the wedding at this unique venue I wasn’t asking for judgement I am a financially responsible person and there is nothing wrong with that. Maybe you shouldn’t comment on posts if your purpose is to be negative. Not everyone has to spend thousands of dollars on a wedding for it to be special but if you think that then that is your own opinion. I didn’t realize this site was so full of judgement when someone is trying to plan a wedding on a budget. Yes I know it’s not the perfect dreamy setting but not everyone can afford that so I have to work with what I can. Well I could afford it I just think it’s smarter to save that money towards a home. And if that makes some of the coordination just a bit awkward in saving $10,000 (because that’s how much were saving by switching venues) then yes that’s ok. Jeesh.
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  • Colleen
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    So something to consider. I am not being judgy. Is there anyone who may have trouble walking the stairs? Is there a elevator? If not can you rent some tables to put downstairs?
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    Beginner October 2020
    Courtney ·
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    Thanks Colleen yes we did think of that and we do not have any guests that would have any trouble with stairs if so we would have chosen a different venue as the only place to eat would be up some stairs and they do not have an elevator. We may be able to have everything outside and like others suggested doing a cocktail inside but of course that would be weather permitting it’s just so hard in Indiana to predict no matter what day it’s on . I thought about hiring a day-of wedding coordinator I think that will solve a lot of my concerns having my wedding at a unique venue so the day will go more smoothly.

    thers expressed concerns of people eating on two different floors but I don’t think this will bother anyone I will of course go around and visit everyone just like I would if it was all in the same room, usually in most weddings Ive been to the bride and groom are far away from everyone even in the same room and they sit with their wedding party while eating then go around the room to see everyone so i didnt see how this would be much different. Honestly most of my family just eloped for their weddings or did like a backyard BBQ we both have very laid back families and they all stress not to overspend on the day because it’s about the marriage so we are following their advice, no one is going to be upset no matter what we do for our wedding they will be happy and supportive no matter what we do so we are very lucky in that way.
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