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Gen
Champion June 2019

Not sure what to do about makeup

Gen, on November 20, 2018 at 11:32 AM Posted in Hair and Makeup 0 11
So one of my bridesmaids is graduating from cosmetology school next month (so she’ll actually be professional) and she offered to do my hair and makeup for the wedding, as well as for the other bridesmaids, which I was thrilled about.

My only issue is, she lives in another state and the soonest she’d be coming to visit is March, if at all (wedding is in June). I trust her to do a great job with my hair because I don’t want anything particularly complicated done, and her specialty in cosmetology school is hair.

But with the makeup, I tend to be very picky about makeup (how it looks, and especially what type of makeup is used—I have very acne-prone skin and have only found one foundation ever that doesn’t make it break out more). I’m nervous about committing to using her for my makeup when I have to wait so long to have a trial.

My mom’s friend is also a professional makeup artist—she’s actually the one who introduced me to the one foundation that doesn’t make my skin breakout. We would have to pay her to do it (because it is her job) but it may rest my concerns because she lives close by and I could do a trial with her whenever, plus it would make getting ready the morning of the wedding even quicker (my bridesmaid could be working on the other girls’ hair and I could be getting my makeup done at the same time).

This is mostly just me trying to sort out my thoughts lol, thanks to anyone who read this far! What do y’all think... do I just ask my mom’s friend to do it, do I wait until I see my friend in March? And if I decide to have my mom’s friend do it, should I have her do makeup for the other girls too? Would it be weird to have her come just to do mine?

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Latest activity by Megan, on December 5, 2018 at 10:23 AM
  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
    Kenisha ·
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    You still have 3 months in between March and June. Why not wait to see how your BM does on your trial and make your decision afterwards.
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  • Munchkin9218
    Master September 2018
    Munchkin9218 ·
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    It sounds like you already know what you want to do. I personally think having two separate artists is better, especially since the hair stylist is ALSO a BM and will need to get ready herself and that will eat into her time if she is doing hair AND make up for everyone else.

    Since you would have the pay the professional artist I would just tell your girls you have decided to Hire MUA X and the price is X amount, whoever wants to have it done is welcome to get in on the service. Most people are picky about their make up and may opt out to do it themselves whether your friend does it o the professional does it. Of my 8 people who got ready with us, only 3 BMs and my mom got their make up professionally done and everyone else opted to do it themselves. All five of my BMs opted to have their hair done though so I would just give your girls the option for both and see how many people that actually is.


    ETA: also you need to think that hair will take about half an hour per person and about an hour for you, and the same with Make up. So if you have one person doing both that is an hour per person plus two hours for you, which you need to work into your timeline to be ready at the right time pre ceremony - especially if you're doing any photos before hand or a first look with either you H or your Dad. Having one person affects the time you need to start getting ready. Having two people - one for each service - streamlines this. I also highly doubt your BM will be offended if you explain that its a timing issue with hiring a MUA.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    If it were me, I would ask your friend's mom to do a trial and explain the situation to her. I'd let her know you love (if you do) how she did your makeup, but you don't want to offend your friend in cosmetology school. Then do a trial with your friend and if you don't like it hire your friend's mom. If you do, let your friend's mom attend as a guest. Another option is, you can have both of them doing hair and makeup because getting ready will go by a lot faster.

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  • Ingrid
    Super September 2018
    Ingrid ·
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    I would pick a vendor over a friend — less feelings will get hurt the day of if you have suggestions. And with a vendor, you're more likely to have a contract, whereas the friend may not write up a contract and is free to back out the day of, even if you don't think she would do that to you.

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  • Kodi
    Super April 2019
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    If it were me, I wouldn't wait. I had one trial already & it was bad, I contacted someone else and she was already booked. My wedding is this coming April. Do a trial now and make sure you like it, don't wait on anyone!

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  • Preslee
    Expert May 2019
    Preslee ·
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    I'd choose the vendor over a friend and explain that to her. I wouldn't hide it at all just explain your concerns.

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  • Alexandra
    Super December 2018
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    Ohh this is tricky... if you wait until your friend comes to town to do the trial and you don't like it, then you might hurt her feelings...

    I would honestly tell her thank you so much, can you please do the rest of the bridesmaids, and have your mom's friend do yours and say something like you don't want her to feel rushed for time to do all the women there. It is not weird to have someone to come dote on you only on your wedding day! If anything it's a very valid excuse! Do what you will feel most beautiful with because at the end of the day you want to feel comfortable and gorgeous from now until the wedding.

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  • Talia
    Super October 2020
    Talia ·
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    Personally I would go with the MUA who told you about your foundation and she's professional. Since I'm picky about makeup. Your BM can do your hair if you choose.

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  • D
    Super September 2019
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    I feel you ! I have acne prone skin and scarring unfortunately. I HIGHLY recommend airbrush. My makeup artist made my skin look like a babys bottom on my trial!
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  • Jane
    Expert May 2019
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    Go with your Mums friend. Less stress on the day. Your bridemaid can do all the hair, that will take long enough in itself. Imagine you don't like what your friend does on the day.... better with a third party

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    Savvy May 2019
    Megan ·
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    Have you considered having your mom's friend do your look and then your bridesmaid do everyone else's look? You could just explain to your bridesmaid who is the makeup artist that you don't want to feel rushed or anything if she were to do everyone's look, because keep in mind your makeup is the most important on the day!!

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