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Dedicated October 2010

Need a pick me up!

Joline, on August 24, 2010 at 3:51 PM Posted in Planning 0 8

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Hi ladies, im kinda new to this and i have read just about all the discussions you guys have posted and now its my turn for some encouagement. my sister just called me at work to inform me that she will not be attending my wedding. she and i have had a rocky relationship for awhile but i kinda thought that she would step up and be there for me..and now that she is definetly not gonna be there im kinda hurt and sad. so any words of wisdom or maybe even a funny joke would be much apperciated!

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Latest activity by Joline, on August 24, 2010 at 4:28 PM

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MB's Mom · on August 24, 2010 at 4:02 PM
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Tough one, Joline. But (as usual) Brian has good words of advice. You do have to give her credit for being up front with her decision - even though it hurts. It's ok to be sad, but don't let the sadness hang on. You will have a great day - marrying the one you love. Hopefully, you can patch things up, and she'll attend your 10 year re-commitment ceremony! Good luck - and keep your eye on the prize!
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Joline · on August 24, 2010 at 4:02 PM
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Thanks brian..trying to look at the positive but right now i just feel like everything is falling apart and her not being there put the icing on the cake (so to speak)
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Joline · on August 24, 2010 at 4:03 PM
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Thanks mb's mom..i hope
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~Jeff's Angel~ · on August 24, 2010 at 4:07 PM
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Try to focus on the positive happy moments and on you and your FH - maybe take a night off of wedding stuff and do a fun date night out somewhere to get your mind off of everything for a few hours. Good luck and I hope everything turns out wonderful for you on your wedding day!
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Sweetie · on August 24, 2010 at 4:15 PM
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I agree with everyone else about the advice. One silver lining is that she told you now not the day before or day of. As for a good laugh this usually does the trick... let me know what you think... I'm giggling just thinking about it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hMtZfW2z9dw
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Joline · on August 24, 2010 at 4:28 PM
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Lovely unique she is not coming because she is not in the wedding. she is one of those people who is an attention hog and when my fh and i announced our engagement and pregnancy she was vary mad/upset that she and her kids were not in the spot light and now my son is 3 months old and she has never met him and she basically said she never will and that because she isn't in the wedding she will not be attending.
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