So FH and I are older and really don't have parents that can contribute to help us with our wedding, which is absolutely fine. We are able to cover the cost of our wedding. I had my oldest daughter while I was young and we have been through so much together. I felt that she desetved the privilege of being my MOH. she is doing really good for herself, she is in college and has a very good job. So yesterday was her birthday and we went out to eat I mentioned I need to make a deposit on the wedding cake and apple pies on a stick from the baker. She replies no you don't mom, it's been taken care of. She paid for it in full!! She said she is so grateful to me for the life that I have given her and her sisters and the sacrifices that I made so they can have, it was the least she could do. I was so deeply touched