Maid of Honor🤔🤔😨😨😢

You should ask who you feel closest to. Literally all that she is required to do is buy the agreed upon dress and make it to the ceremony sober enough to stand through it. What do you expect her to help you with?

MOH is the person who is closest to you, not the person you ‘rely’ on for anything.

View Quoted Comment She helps you get dressed day of.....help keep you calm. Planning bachelorette party and/or bridal shower. Just kind of be your right hand that day

You can have two MOHs if you want. We live in a progressive world, and there is no rule that says you have to have a MOH or bridesmaids or even a wedding party at all. If you think a friend and your sister would like to share the title, then that might be an easy solution. Maybe your sister can help you with all the wedding day details and the other friend can be in charge of the bridal shower and bachelorette party. Or you could have a talk with your sister about being MOH and see what she says. Ask her if she thinks it’s feasible, if she has enough time, some of your expectation, etc. If you want her to be your MOH, ask her first. Maybe she will put other things on hold and set some stuff aside to make time for being MOH. But talk to her first even if you decide not to ask her.

View Quoted Comment I did talk to her. She said she can't commit to anything not even the ceremony. She said she'd rather be a guest. It hurt for me to hear her say that especially since we are a year away from the wedding. But I respect her choice