Well as most of you know i live in PA and the wedding is here in NY so not only did i come up here to visit FH, but i knocked out some searious wedding stuff. i gave the final pic worksheet back and pics i saw in mags so that he would get an idea of what i want and then i met with the reception site and chose my table linens, napkins, cake design, chair covers, bows, everything. i don't have to work with them again till Aug. when i left the photog he was like man, your organzied lol i wish some of my brides where like you lol. i came with a notbook, pics out of mags, and tons of questions, to get my stuff right. i'm on the ball ladies... How bout you??