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Devoted September 2017

Forgot pics of the ushers!!!

Mrs.Married, on October 16, 2017 at 12:55 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 6

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Omg I'm so mortified. Somehow we didn't get any pics with our ushers!! No idea where they were when we were taking them. Hubby said they were waiting to be told what to do. I was KINDA busy being the bride and didn't realize they weren't there, and apparently neither did the photographer. They were so amazing and helpful and each one sent extremely thoughtful gifts to boot. I feel absolutely awful. I know they're guys and probably don't care but I feel like it makes them seem insignificant somehow. What should we do?!?!

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Latest activity by Trevor, on October 16, 2017 at 9:56 AM

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TealWedding · on October 16, 2017 at 1:04 AM
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Curious if you had a day of coordinator.
Send them a really nice thank you note. There's nothing you can do about it now. I'm sure they won't mind. I forgot to get pictures with our flower girls but there are tons of us dancing and having fun, plus them walking down the aisle, just not the formal picture. I'm cool with it.
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Mrs.Married · on October 16, 2017 at 1:13 AM
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Yes I did, but since I'm in the boonies, and we don't have those here, it was her first one. She had went home to change her clothes when we were doing pics. Stupid mistake!!
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Future Mrs M · on October 16, 2017 at 9:16 AM
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Your DOC left to change her clothes?
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Mrs.Married · on October 16, 2017 at 9:25 AM
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Yes. It was her first wedding. Yes I think she did not realize how long she was going to be there, or if it will be appropriate. Not a frendor, but someone local that I know who is trying to get her business started. She was decorating the ceremony venue because we couldn't do it early (outdoors) and it had rained that morning. I'm assuming she got dirty/muddy and that's why she left. Ugh!!
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Sos0033 · on October 16, 2017 at 9:48 AM
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The whole DOC thing is pretty irrelevant at this point. Your photographer also should have probably been on top of this, but again, it’s a moot point now. When you say ushers, are you using the term interchangeably with groomsmen? Or did you have separate guys usher guests? I would send them a nice thank you note at this point and leave it. Nothing you can do about the pictures now.
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Trevor · on October 16, 2017 at 9:56 AM
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I'm not sure you can do much at this point!
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