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Emily381
Devoted October 2016

All my random questions that I can't seem to make decisions on

Emily381, on September 2, 2016 at 1:44 PM Posted in Planning 0 7

It seems like everyday I come up with new details I haven't thought of! Your help is much appreciated!

1.) Reception schedule - I know people do it different ways, but what makes more sense: Introductions, first dance, dinner, toasts, father/daughter dance, open dancing? Or Introductions, dinner, toasts, first dance, father/daughter dance, open dancing? Or am I completely off base and it's supposed to be something completely different?

2.) Introductions - we're doing a first look so most of the pictures will be done and we'll join the cocktail hour with everyone. Is it ok to just have me and FH introduced into the reception or should we gather the entire BP again and do introductions for everyone? Would you feel weird as part of the BP and not be introduced?

3.) Bar Menu - continued in comments

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Latest activity by Emily381, on September 2, 2016 at 2:22 PM
  • Emily381
    Devoted October 2016
    Emily381 ·
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    …the venue provides beer and wine, we provide hard alcohol and mixers for cocktails. Should we do a poster sized bar menu sign for our drinks or a smaller sign to just put on the bar or a bar menu for every table?

    4.) Ceremony Décor - We are having the ceremony on the lawn of a mansion with the bay in the background. Does this space really need decoration and if so what should we do? (picture attached) We don't have a florist as I ordered bouquets of fake flowers online (gorgeous and only $400!) and we're making centerpieces with no flowers, so I'd like to avoid hiring a florist for just some ceremony décor if at all possible.

    Thanks in advance for your answers to my randomness!


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  • Going to the chapel
    Master July 2017
    Going to the chapel ·
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    1. I like the intro, first dance, toasts, dinner, father/daughter, open dancing option.

    2. As a member of the bridal party, I'm more than happy to not be introduced.

    3. I'd just list the beer, wine, liquor options available on a small sign on the bar.

    4. No additional decor needed.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP July 2016
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    Agree with Chapel

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  • AMW
    Master September 2016
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    1. I like your first schedule---you can even start toasts while people are eating so they have something to do while listening.

    2. I would just introduce you two.

    3. Is there a waiter coming to take drink orders? If yes, menu at tables. If no, sign on the bar.

    4. Doesn't seem like you need decor, that's very pretty as is! If you really wanted more you could do chair sashes or petals down the aisle but I think those are both a waste of money in general (and petals not allowed at most venues).

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  • mimitrue
    Master January 2016
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    Chapel nailed it.

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  • CMC
    Master November 2016
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    Our dinner is a 3-course meal, would it be weird to do intro, dances, father toast/blessing by our priest, first course, bm/moh toasts? To break it up a little?

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  • Emily381
    Devoted October 2016
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    Thanks everyone! I'm glad every one seems to agree ceremony decor is not necessary, that was the one thing that I honestly didn't think about until like today and I was not looking forward to having to shell out another few hundred bucks to decorate a space we use for like 30 minutes.

    AMW - no waiter, it's buffet and then there's two bars - one inside the mansion, one on the patio. We did a menu of the food for each table so people would know what to expect at the buffet, but I wasn't sure if it made sense to do one for the bar at each table as people would then need to get up and walk to the bar, and then I wasn't sure if a huge sign was necessary, or if something just printed up on some cardstock and put on the bar was enough. I think I may be overthinking this one a bit...

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