Advice about Father Involvement with hurting anyone's feelings

You still have over a year. You may be really close to him by the time your wedding comes around. Do you not want him to walk you down the aisle or have the father/daughter dance because you have someone else in mind (brother, stepdad, uncle, etc)? I wouldn't rush it and maybe see what happens in a few months.

But if you don't want him involved in those ways maybe a reading or usher?

STOP STARTING SO MANY THREADS DAYUM.

Ummmmm excuse me? I'm sorry if I'm excited to be getting married and thought that maybe the people on this website could help me since they are probably experiencing some of the things I am.

I didn't realize there was a maximum quota here.

Or may be you can just keep on scrolling if you don't want to read what my threads.

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I understand. You're excited. I get it. You have just under 18 months to start thinking about these things. Why not observe, offer commentary, and think about all this for some time? People are more likely to answer you when they have a sense of community with you versus someone who uses the board to ask on every single thing that crosses her mind.

Rachel, welcome. We are excited about our weddings. However, we tend to individually post a few threads a day!

Here is our post for new users. We recommend you read it. https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/welcome-to-the-weddingwire-forums-please-read-if-you-are-new/b433c40c1a62b96a.html

Janeen hit it on the head, Rachel. Stick around for a while and we'll be happy to get to know you. There's really a great community here and it would be cool to have you become part of it.

Rachel, let me put this in perspective. Say, I send you an email with a question. Then ten minutes later I email you again, a different question. This repeats as new questions pop into my head. Wouldn't it be slightly frustrating to you?

None of your questions are time sensitive. Either group them, or write them down to ask later. We are all excited for our weddings, but you are essentially throwing a lot of questions at us at once!

I understand. I guess I didn't really introduce myself or anything before just posting, I actually think its pretty cool that you try to get to know a little about one another and I'm excited to know more about you all as well.

I wish that last few comments would have been what I read first and not the one that just told me to stop posting so many threads which I guess I took the wrong way.

My apologies for sounding scatterbrained and uninterested in other people's threads- I have been reading other threads and have learned quite a bit.

Don't take anything I say seriously.

Did you introduce yourself? If so, link it.

Yea, this is less of a board and more of a community. Stick around, introduce yourself, and enjoy!

Yeah - don't listen to snarky, she's a sassy dachshund.

Snarky lives up to her name sometimes. Shes harmless though.

OP - Grow a pair FFS. Nobody knows who you are yet (other than the new serial poster). Get t o know the forums before you dive in and start in on one of our veterans with your "excuse me" bullshit.

Yea, snarky is actually a dog. Don't listen to her.

And Emmy is actually a cat. And we all know cats are assholes. So.....

Oh and @Mrs.K has pregnancy hormones that has made her extra sassy. Tread carefully with her.

And this comment and my previous one are obviously said with love.

I was sassy before, now I'm just hormonal and sassy, which can be a lethal combination. Either way, welcome and yes...tread lightly. As long as you don't ask any questions about cash bars, dollar dances, or self-catered food, you should be fine. Oh yea, and don't ever under any circumstance start a thread with, "Is this tacky," or you will get eaten alive. That is all. Plan on!

"Is it ok if I ask my MOH to step down because she's pregnant?"

Lol yes, the combination of hormonal and sassy can be lethal

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