Sunday I get a missed call/text from one of my bridesmaids that I haven't spoken to since January. She is the textbook definition of an awkward hermit homebody. I went to school with her where we became friends, but soon realized that after we graduated from school and after I asked her to be a bridesmaid, we had absolutely nothing in common. She's a sweet girl, but we are just polar opposites. I really wanted to "give her an out" to be out of the wedding party, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it, even with how "nice" I was putting it. Well I call her back and within 10 seconds of "Hey! Hows it going?" she tells me that she no loner wants to be in the wedding because she is uncomfortable being in front of people. I was sad yet really relieved, and I promised her we would get lunch some time next week and catch up. We will see if that really happens. FH and decided to add an extra to both sides, so I can add my 2 really good friends! We now have 6 GM and BM! Now I'm super happy!!
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