The wedding is 3 weeks away and all the rsvps are in. At least the ones i expected an answer from.
For those who might have read my previous posts, my mom and I are not exactly friends. She doesn't talk to me. I wasn't expecting much for her input or excitement towards the wedding. But since before I sent out the invites (about 3 months ago) I have not heard anything from her. The last time we even spoke was i think March or April when i was trying to ask her if she wanted to come dress shopping with me. She never gave me an answer, so i went without her.
Well, she never sent back her rsvp. Nor told anyone (even my sister who is my MOH) if she is coming. So she will most likely not be there. My Dad thinks that she might make a "surprise appearance", meaning that she'll just show up with no notice. I'm of the opinion that if she wants to come and have a good time i would have been perfectly fine with it. But if she was going to have an attitude, i would have someone send her home.
Now it is 3 weeks away, the rsvp day is passed, the caterer has the final count, and i have to plan for her potentially showing up.
My uncle, Dad's brother, is officiating. I am going to talk with him today about the ceremony and what to do.
The divorce was not a happy one. My mom hates my Dad's side of the family. My fiance's family is not huge fans of her either. I don't know who i would send to have her go home.
Anyone have any thoughts?