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Just Said Yes September 2018

Dinner after the wedding

Karen, on September 1, 2017 at 3:21 PM Posted in Planning 0 8

When we planned on getting married in Vegas, it was going to be just the two of us and our parents. The rest of family and friends wanted to go so we told them that they were more than welcome to attend the ceremony, but there is NOT going to be any type of reception (we will do that at home upon return of honeymoon). We said that if anyone wanted to go to dinner after the wedding, that was great, but we weren't paying. No one has so far had any issues with that.

That being said, can anyone recommend a moderately priced restaurant that might be able to seat 40ish people and let us just order off menu (like a regular dinner just with a large group)? Do any of the buffets do it?

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Latest activity by Sarah, on September 1, 2017 at 5:40 PM
  • WED18
    July 1993
    WED18 ·
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    100% agree with @Melissa

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  • Hannah
    Super August 2017
    Hannah ·
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    I thought the point of getting married in Vegas was to elope lol. I agree with the others, but if you really have your heart set on a reception back home, I have no advice on restaurant choices, sorry

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  • kirackle
    Super September 2017
    kirackle ·
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    It is incredibly rude to not pay for your guests' dinner. They have issues with this arrangement I am sure, but they are not telling you to your face.

    You either elope and save money or you invite guests and fully host them. I know I would only fly to Vegas to witness the wedding of a dear loved one. Why do you feel that they are not deserving of your thanks?

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  • cantwait4thedate
    VIP November 2017
    cantwait4thedate ·
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    I am not going to tell you how what or how you have to do things, because obviously people have kind of pushed their way into your day and you are going to have a big reception once you get home, as you have already said.

    That being said, yes, there are quite a few buffet restaurants that will set aside tables for your party and everyone can just come through the line after paying, find their seat, and then get their food. My friend did that for her wedding, even though it was her actual reception and she paid. What kind of food are you looking for, and maybe I can give you some ideas of which ones have that kind of food?

    If you do not care if it is on the strip The Orleans Hotel (about 5-8 minutes off the strip) has a great buffet called "The Market Street Buffet" which has about 8 different types of foods, and a HUGE dessert buffet section. I am not sure about putting the tables together, but I am sure if you call them and speak to them they will be happy to do so.

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  • JigglyPoof
    Expert August 2017
    JigglyPoof ·
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    Disagree with kirackle...the circumstances here are different. It sounds like your guests may just want to make a vegas trip out of it and tag along and have some fun while they're at it. I wouldn't expect for someone to pay for my dinner if I insisted on coming to something that isn't meant to be the reception.

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  • JJAF
    Super October 2019
    JJAF ·
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    A buffet would probably be easier. Try checking yelp! You can sort through options using their filters.

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
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    Just invite your parents to the ceremony and dinner afterwards. Everyone else can come to the reception at the later date.

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  • K
    Just Said Yes September 2018
    Karen ·
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    Thank you all for the responses. Eileen, you are correct. We told everyone straight up that we couldn't afford a large wedding - plus it's my second and his third - rather spend money on honeymoon. The family also wanted us to have a cruise ship wedding, so they could all go - and a destination wedding in the Caribbean, so they could go there. We were straight up about just having a ceremony and they all said they still wanted to go, so I don't feel obligated to pay for their food.

    I am looking for just 'American type' food - a buffet would probably work great. I will check with the Orleans.

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