We got into an argument the day he proposed to me. I am habitually late and of course he was ready 45 min before me and still waiting so we argued. But an hour later we were fine. No relationship is perfect all the time. You’re going to argue no matter what’s going on. There will be days and maybe even weeks when you don’t like each other (but you’ll still love each other). You just have to work on it, like any other relationship you have in your life.
Every couple in the world fights. If they say they don't, they're lying. It's totally normal to fight and no matter how much you love someone, you will never agree on everything. One fight isn't a problem, even if the timing is bad. It's the repetitive red flags of constant fighting, disrespect, fighting over the same issue, etc. you need to worry about, in my opinion.
We were in a blissful bubble during our wedding weekend lol, but the months leading up to it we certainly fought. Actually, the Thursday before our wedding weekend (we took off work on Friday) I asked my husband to leave work on time so we could have dinner and spend time with our out of town relatives. I told him to work as late as he needed to on Tuesday and Wednesday but to PLEASE just leave on time on Thursday (he worked until 6 normally). He didn’t end up leaving work until like 7, and then it was raining so hard and trees were down so it took him like 45 mins to get home instead of 20 🙄 I was sooo pissed and couldn’t believe that was how we were starting our wedding weekend!
but, it quickly became background noise to the rest of the wonderful weekend.
WeddingWire celebrates love...and so does everyone on our site!Learn more