Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

VIP June 2017

Did your FH attend any part of your bridal shower?

Flag
Hide content

vghjfcxgxfgdh, on March 20, 2017 at 11:21 AM

So my MOH is throwing me a Bridal Shower this weekend! I'm super excited! Over the weekend, I was with a friend/bridesmaid and she asked my FH, "Are you going to come at the end when she opens gifts?" . I have actually never heard of this being a thing, and have only been to one shower (hers) , where the groom came at the end. I really wasn't planning on having him there because I thought (In most cases) it was an event just for the women, (Knowing my FH, i'm pretty sure he would rather stay at home and watch March Madness games, and help me unpack the gifts later haha) but i'm curious what you all think? Is this a tradition I didn't know about? Should I ask him if he wants to come at the end or keep it for the women?

Show all

49 Comments

Dedicated May 2017
Whitney · on March 20, 2017 at 10:04 PM
Flag

Hide content
My bridal shower is this weekend also!
My FH is having his bachelor party the sane day as my shower so he went be there.
- Reply
Super June 2017
Future Mrs. Holz · on March 20, 2017 at 10:07 PM
Flag

Hide content
Yes! My FH came to my first shower and is also attending my second. Just panned out that way
- Reply
Super October 2017
Amanda · on March 20, 2017 at 10:08 PM
Flag

Hide content
My FH and my dad will come at the end to load up the cars with the gifts. My FH will probably drive me to my shower since I don't know the date! My mom wants to keep me in the dark. Ugh
- Reply
Just Said Yes April 2017
Chelsea · on March 21, 2017 at 12:24 AM
Flag

Hide content
Dont over think ladies... noone will pay any mind.

I was the same way, and my fiance stayed inside the house with another guy drinking beer...and tv.. he showed up when i started gifts and brought me roses such a sweetie... & he got into it and grabbed some gifts to open lol
- Reply
Dedicated March 2017
AMB1984 · on March 21, 2017 at 12:29 AM
Flag

Hide content
My FH came about an hour before mine ended. He bonded with my friends"s boyfriends/husbands lol
- Reply
Expert September 2018
Vilma · on March 21, 2017 at 1:28 AM
Flag

Hide content
Id said ladies only, the FH always look awkward. It's obvious theyd rather be elsewhere
- Reply
Devoted April 2017
TashaMac · on March 22, 2017 at 11:17 PM
Flag

Hide content
So the location of my Shower was a surprise.. after taking off my blindfold and realizing my Shower was being held at our new home that FH bought for us that I've yet to move in b/c I'm waiting til we're married.... and after wiping away a few tears.. I asked for him to be there. It was special. I was glad he came. The girls didn't mind
- Reply
Dedicated April 2017
Nicole · on March 23, 2017 at 10:31 AM
Flag

Hide content
My FH attended my shower sort of. Mine was a surprise shower that ended up being an hour away from where we live. So he walked me into the room, said hello to the guests, then left he room and had lunch at the bar (my father came to sit with him at the bar since my mom/dad had to drive a looooong distance to attend). So he was there, but not really.
- Reply

Super October 2017
K squared · on March 23, 2017 at 10:35 AM
Flag

Hide content
My best friend had her so at hers. It was at her mom's house and he mostly just hung out with her dad and mingled with everyone. If I have a shower I would want my fiance there because he created our whole registry. He's way more into house gear than I am. It's up to him though.
- Reply