Super awkward situation... we invited a family to our wedding which was almost 9 months ago now. They declined, as one of them was graduating college that same weekend. We never received a gift from them. No hard feelings of course, I couldn’t care less that they didn’t send a gift and never gave it a second thought, especially because they didn’t attend.
However my mom was just talking with a woman from that family and she asks my mom “did they get the swimming with dolphins package on their honeymoon as our wedding gift?” My mom thought it seemed like she was a little annoyed that she hadn’t received a thank you note. But I am very, very confused because i was very thorough with our thank yous and I know we didn’t receive a gift from them. I double checked our honeyfund just to be extra sure, and they’re not the ones who gifted us swimming with dolphins, it was someone else.
Has this ever happened to any of you...? How do you handle it? Just awkwardly tell them “no, sorry but we didn’t receive your gift”......? I feel like that seems gift-grabby but also like I said I didn’t expect them to get us anything to begin with, but I don’t want them thinking I’m rude for not having sent a thank you card!
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