We went to a wedding on 11/5 and brought a physical gift, along with a card and check that was inside the bag. We had put the the gift on the card table, which had started outside but then cocktail hour got moved inside. I noticed where the card box ended up once it was moved, but I never saw the couple physical gifts that were on the table again.
At first I was like ok I'll just keep an eye on our bank account, we'll know they actually got the gift when the check is cashed. Now it's been a little over three weeks and there has been no sign that the bag actually made it to them.
Am I being overly concerned or should I give it a little more time before I get too worried that it didn't make it?
Another thing is, neither my nor my husbands know how to even word the question asking if they received it. Anyone have any advice?