I recently fell in love with a venue -- a working farm near the Shenandoah Valley with a lovely historical farmhouse (that's WAY too small to accommodate our wedding as a rain backup). In my perfect world, it won't rain, and I won't need a tent. I don't want a tent -- and there's plenty of shade. BUT, as anyone can tell you, there are no guarantees. I want to hear from brides (or grooms too!) who had a tent as a backup (for rain only), and how it ended up working out for their wedding. Did it add a boatload to your final cost? Was it reasonable? Still have a fun time? What was under the tent? When did you make the final decision to have the tent erected? I want to hear mainly from people who were only using the tent as a backup, who weren't planning on using it if it didn't rain. I've heard of several people putting down a "rain deposit" with their tent companies, which is what I'd plan to do (if it was an option). Not suggesting a two days beforehand scramble to find a tent.