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Kelly
VIP October 2020

Did anyone else's Husband take the wife's name?

Kelly, on May 16, 2019 at 8:43 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 13
Fiance wants to take my name. I think it's cute! Any other women who's husband took their name? Any funny stories to tell about it?

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Latest activity by Grace, on January 8, 2020 at 3:05 PM
  • Paula
    Super September 2019
    Paula ·
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    I've only heard of it one time. My uncle took his wife's name. The only odd thing about that is she was married before so he actually took her ex-husbands name...we all laugh about it including him LOL

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  • S
    Dedicated June 2020
    Shannon ·
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    That's definitely interesting! My FH and I have been talking alot about this cause his last name has a bad rep from family members and so we talked about making up a whole new last name (if that's even possible) or combining them somehow!
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  • Destiny
    VIP May 2020
    Destiny ·
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    My uncle took my aunts last name idk why though
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  • Tessa
    Devoted November 2019
    Tessa ·
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    I have clients who took her last name and also had a client who made up a completely new last name. They both had alot of family issues and didnt even know their biological dads. They wanted a fresh new start and both changed their last names. I thought it was so bizarre at first (especially in terms of geneology. Their history going back to 2012....that would be weird) but after getting to know their story I completely understood.
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  • October2019
    Dedicated October 2019
    October2019 ·
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    FH is taking mine and I am taking his. So we will have a hyphanated name with both of ours.
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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
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    Ive never met a man in person who I knowingly did this. I wish more men would be willing to do this.
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  • Heather
    Savvy June 2019
    Heather ·
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    We're actually both going with an entirely new name, but FH offered to take mine before we decided. Granted, my maiden name is super easy and common, so I think that was a part of it! When I offered previous family names (mother's, grandparents', etc), all of which were like 10+ letters and super Germanic, he declined.

    Be prepared for some questions. No one has batted an eye at me changing my last name, but they definitely have with him. When we got our marriage license, they asked him (not as an official question but conversational) if he was changing his last name because of his father! Nope, but even if that was the reason, that seems like a bit of a personal question.

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  • Wendy
    Super August 2021
    Wendy ·
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    I wish mine would lol.. I don’t plan on Changing my last name and he’s upset about so I told him he can change his to mine and he LOL... so that was that..
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  • Emily
    Devoted December 2021
    Emily ·
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    My FH and I have talked extensively about this! I really want him to change his last name to mine and he is leaning towards it. My last name is really special to my family and it has a lot of history attached to it, but he is not attached to his last name at all. He is still undecided though. I hope he takes my name!
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  • L
    Savvy October 2019
    Luce ·
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    My FH will be taking my last name as well 😊his idea too, although I’m quite happy he suggested it.
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  • Carol
    Devoted October 2019
    Carol ·
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    I joked about FH taking my name and he agreed to do it immediately. I've always thought my name would change, but I'm actually considering it.
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  • Madison
    Devoted May 2022
    Madison ·
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    My FH also wants to take my last name! lol I told him we could switch 😂 I have a feeling he isn’t being too serious but if he is then that’s fine too
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  • Grace
    Beginner May 2020
    Grace ·
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    My fiance and I are taking a brand new name but he has to change his name first before the wedding (I will change mine right away after the wedding) because he is getting an LLC for his business. Do you have any advice? We dont know how to change his name yet, but I got an address to go to from calling my county clerk of the court phone number.
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