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Dedicated October 2019

Devastated, hurt, humiliated and the end

Nicole, on September 26, 2019 at 9:59 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 27

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Ya’ll 30 days before my destination wedding and I called it off. 😭 My fiancé and I were really struggling with our differences in parenting (in counseling) and tonight things blew up to a whole new level. I took of my ring, grabbed my child and our dog and left the house. He said when I return the locks and PIN number to our home will be changed. That is my house too and now my son and I are left scrambling to find a new place. I’m sorry I’m airing my dirty laundry here, I shouldn’t I just need to get it out. 😭😭😭

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Latest activity by Kiara, on October 1, 2019 at 8:41 PM

Legend June 2019
Melle · on September 26, 2019 at 10:08 PM
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Oh my gosh, im sending you virtual hugs. I hope everything works out for you.
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Karla · on September 26, 2019 at 10:18 PM
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I really hope you find peace. Signs are everywhere
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Super October 2019
Kat_ · on September 26, 2019 at 10:21 PM
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Oh no, I’m so sorry to hear this! Contact your friends nearby and family if that’s an option. Surround yourself with love!!
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Devoted June 2020
Kimber · on September 26, 2019 at 10:28 PM
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If he does that you can contact the police because he can't lawfully evict you
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Fleur · on September 26, 2019 at 10:36 PM
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Aw girl!! Proud of you for doing what sounds like had to be done. Women are such warriors.

Will keep you in my prayers. ❤️
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Devoted February 2020
Nikkeisha · on September 26, 2019 at 10:37 PM
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Oh no....I'm so sorry you are going through this. Do you have family or friends near by you could stay with?
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Kaylee · on September 26, 2019 at 11:36 PM
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Oh no! 😞 I’m so sorry! Just keep breathing, things work out the way they’re supposed to one way or the other! Sending hugs and prayers your way
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KiwiDerbyBride · on September 27, 2019 at 6:34 AM
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He can't just throw you out like that - you're a legal resident and as such, he has to give you the required notice, whatever it might be where you live. Call the police if you need to, but he's very much in the wrong. Are you on the lease/mortgage? Even if you're not, you still have rights.
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Cyndy · on September 27, 2019 at 7:20 AM
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First of all I’m sorry for what you’re going through. If your name is on the lease or mortgage he can’t kick you out so contact someone this morning for help. You and your child should not be treated like this. Good luck.
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Dedicated October 2019
Nicole · on September 27, 2019 at 8:02 AM
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Thank you all for your kind worlds. I am on the mortgage, yes and will be in contact with a real estate attorney today to see what my rights are. I hope it gets better. This was literally one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever had to make in my life 😭
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Andrea · on September 27, 2019 at 9:05 AM
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OMG.... I am so sorry to hear about all of this. And I really hope your situation gets better
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Nicole · on September 27, 2019 at 10:28 AM
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Oh goodness! I am so so sorry you're going though this!! things will get better! chin up pretty ladyy!
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Heather · on September 27, 2019 at 11:47 AM
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I’m so sorry you are going through this. Do you have family nearby? Legally, even if your name isn’t on the house, he cannot kick you out. Tell him you will involve the authorities and see how fast those locks don’t change. Sending you love honey
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Ka-Rina · on September 27, 2019 at 2:03 PM
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If anything his response should re affirm why it is a good thing you are NOT marrying this guy. What man does something like this... It will work out, everything eventually does! Hang in there!!!
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Devoted August 2020
Keyona · on September 27, 2019 at 2:35 PM
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So sorry to hear this and praying you have comfort. Sending love and hugs
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Just Said Yes July 2020
Scott · on September 27, 2019 at 5:01 PM
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Nicole I hope it all works out in the end for you guys. And may the lord bring peace your way and let the wedding go on. Emotions get the best of everyone.
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Ashley · on September 27, 2019 at 5:14 PM
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I'm so sorry my love that you are going through this. He cant change the locks on you and your son, thats illegal. Call the police and ask them to have you to come get your stuff. Then yo can go to civil court if need be later
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Michelle · on September 27, 2019 at 7:00 PM
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Nicole I'm really sorry that your going through this. I'm sending lots of love your way! Please do let a friend or family member know what's going on so they can help you during this time. Also remember, this situation won't last forever and you will be alright.
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Suzie · on September 27, 2019 at 10:32 PM
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If that is your legal residence - where you receive your mail - he has no right to lock you out. Good luck girl, sounds like you’re in for a battle! Stay strong!
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mrsaj2b · on September 28, 2019 at 10:36 PM
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Very sorry to hear you had to do this but like the previous posters have said you are strong to even have made the decision. The house is yours too so don't fret over that. He can changes the access points now but in the end, he will have to share it with you. I am wishing you the best as you move forward.
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