Details/info Card

I just don't see the need for it. At least in my area (NY/NJ), it is standard to give cash/check as a gift at a wedding. You don't need to ask for it. If you do, you may risk offending someone. I don't know how many people would read that and get the sudden epiphany to give cash because they had never had the idea before.

View Quoted Comment I agree, we won't be putting anything like this at all, and we won't even have a registry. But it is curious how some people just put it out there.

I’ve never seen anything like that written on a details card and I’ve never seen physical gifts given at a wedding. In my social circle, cash/checks are all that’s given at weddings so this would just be over the top and unnecessary.

I actually don't quite see anything wrong with the card. sure it isn't necessary but it also isnt rudely worded or anything. I think just letting people know what their options are is ok. I don't think people need to think too much about something like this in terms of if it is rude or tacky. it is purely informational and that is that.

View Quoted Comment I agree! But I do see why people would put something like this though 🤔

View Quoted Comment I see your appoint and I agree. I believe that you as a host know your guests and can adjust your stationary accordingly

I'd leave off the wishing well. If you don't register, people get the hint you want cash.

View Quoted Comment I agree. But again this isn't mine and I just found it on pinterest as I scrolled through. Thank tho

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Right! I was just saying if it were me.

Personally, I see nothing wrong with it but it is definitely a know your crowd thing.