Help! My fiancé and I are getting married in the Bahamas in September with a small group of family and friends attending. Two weeks after we say our I Do's we are having a large reception back home. Since it is customary to send out invitations about a month in advance of the reception (and we won't be officially married at that point), how do I word the invites? Do I refer to us already married? Is it bad juju to do so? Thanks for your help!