So I’m in a dilemma, not as a bride but as a bridesmaid. I was recently married and now have the honor of being one of the bridesmaids at my BEST friend’s wedding. Unlike me ( I chose to stay local) she has been talking about going away for her bachelorette since the day she got engaged. Now the planning for it has finally come. Her MOH has informed us of expected expenses $550 flight & board(renting a home) a nice dinner $100.. a club night (TBD&dollar and a private yacht $300. All of this per person.
I want to be the same good bridesmaid my friend was for my wedding and participate in all things without issue but I feel like the $300 yacht is PUSHING it budget wise because we all know many other unmentioned expenses will arise.
What should I do? The other girls with the exception of 2 are her family and I’ve already seen them respond in agreement. I don’t want to disappoint my best friend by not participating but I also don’t want to have to charge up a card I’ve worked hard paying off. What would you do? 😩