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Shelsey
Just Said Yes May 2026

Demoting a moh

Shelsey, on October 13, 2025 at 4:25 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 1
I have decided that I want to demote my current MOH, I feel as if she doesn’t respect my fiance and she doesn’t care what flies out of her mouth. I’ve been supporting her with everything she does with no judgement, her beliefs and my beliefs are different. Her lifestyle and my lifestyle are becoming increasingly different. How can I bring up the conversation of telling her I no longer want her as my MOH??

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Latest activity by John, on October 14, 2025 at 9:53 AM
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    Just Said Yes December 2025
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    That’s a tough spot to be in. If I were you, I’d first try having a private, honest conversation with her explain your feelings without blaming her, share specific examples of what’s bothering you. If she’s a true friend, she’ll understand even if it’s hard to hear. If things don’t change, it’s okay to reevaluate her role in your wedding party it’s your big day, and you deserve to feel fully supported.

    Wishing you strength and clarity as you figure this out ❤️

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