Delays and falling out with bridesmaids

I am so sorry you are going through this. I live in NC (getting married in FL) and still can't believe he just extended Phase 2 and didn't make any modifications to it.

I know it's hard and having little to no support from family and friends makes it even more difficult. You have a community here that's always willing to help and offer a lending ear.

Don't let our Gov. take away the joy of your day. If you get to marry your love on the day you planned and who cares what modifications had to take place then 2020 wasn't so bad after all.

If we can survive Covid, Killer Hornets, the 17 year Cicadas, Hurricanes and an Earthquake (don't forget the midwest Derecho) - WE.GOT.THIS... Your strong, beautiful and don't let your beautiful day go.

YOU.GOT.THIS

What happened with your bridesmaids? Have you spoken to them if there's an issue? That's the best thing. In regards to your dream wedding I would wait. You can do what many Brides are doing which is small ceremony and bigger wedding later. I think of you want your dream wedding you should have it. I am sorry you're feeling down and I am sending positive vibes.

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I've tried talking with them multiple times, one is angry with me for not attending a large party she was having and the other seems to have just shut down. My fiance is a one and done sort of guy, he has told me he has no desire to have more than one wedding, which is fair since he has always hated parties.

So you live in VA??

"I've always dreamed of an aquarium wedding, but now I'm feeling like it may not be worth it, and going with something simple just to get it over with would be best."

what's wrong with

• National Aquarium in Baltimore. Pier 3, 501 E. Pratt St, Baltimore, MD 21202.
• New Jersey State Aquarium. Camden, NJ.

for an aquarium wedding????

they are close to Virgina ... I'm sorry you don't have the best of friends....

View Quoted Comment We live on the Nc state line so those would be too far for us. Anything outside a 2 hour won't work with family.

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Ahhhhh ok. gotcha

View Quoted Comment Those cicadas are a 2021 delight. 😂 Lets save at least one thing for 2021

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Maybe where you are... here in NC - they have begun...

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As the friend who briefly shut down during the pandemic, I hope that you won't take her actions to heart unless she shares with you that she is unhappy in the friendship. Sometimes people just don't have the capacity to worry about anyone but themselves when things get tough. That said, I'm sorry about this situation, it just stinks. I don't think you should give up on your wedding vision just yet though because you deserve and can 100% plan a wonderful day, even with the pandemic. Can FH step up and help?